Oral Orgasm

topic posted Tue, October 16, 2007 - 9:38 AM by  philip
Here's a question for all you boys and girls: how much do you enjoy having orgasmic delights via oral stimulation only?
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philip
Nigeria
  • Re: Oral Orgasm

    Sat, October 20, 2007 - 10:28 AM
    Of course, there are some women who would baulk at such, claiming that it usually takes them to long to have such an orgasm in this mode.
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    Tue, October 23, 2007 - 2:28 AM
    I enjoy it from time to time... for some reason it seems to take me longer to achieve orgasms this way (but that's nice to prolong the experience with a patient partner)
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    Tue, October 23, 2007 - 4:03 AM
    I love it! What is real good about it is when I just start to cum my lady takes all of me into her throat and keeps me there until I am finished.....not wasting a drop....
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      Tue, October 23, 2007 - 3:12 PM
      I agree I LOVE it there is just something that is so pleasurable about both giving and recieving ORAL, I like to eat my partners till she is cumming and at the moment she cums she takes me in her mouth, If we time it perfect we both cum shatering climaxes.......sometimes 69 is hard as people lose concentration but that seems not to be the problem with all people.....anyfeedback...???what are your expierences.....???
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        Tue, October 23, 2007 - 6:28 PM
        I wish I had some insight but I am not a fan of 69.
        Just does not work for me.
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          Wed, October 24, 2007 - 7:53 AM
          69 is fun but I prefer having my lover enjoying the moment without having to be also performing oral at the same time. That way she can be 100% into what is happening to her. The same goes the other way too - she can put 100% of herself into the oral she is performing on me and I can enjoy it totally.
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            Wed, October 24, 2007 - 11:06 AM
            well as I say I enjoy to time it just right,BUT yes 69 is sometimes hard to concentrate for both parties....I do prefer as you the 100% but sometimes that dual climax is just soooo gooodddd!!!
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    Fri, October 26, 2007 - 11:54 PM
    I have enjoyed this very much in the past... yes, even 69, but it would be on our sides and he would get me up there a bit before I started in on him so the timing worked out for simultaneous climaxes.
    Alas, she is spoiled with her vibrators now to the point where the licking doesn't quite get her there any more. I am very frustrated at this, and it is something that's a recognized area for improvement in my sexual relationship. Her retraining will take a lot of patience, on my lover's and my part. (And keeping the vibes away.)
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      Wed, December 5, 2007 - 4:40 AM
      69 is difficult for me enjoyable for a while but I'm torn between giving and receiving pleasure and the two halfes of my brain get in conflict.
      I really enjoy receiving fro a a partner eager to please. Get sucked, sayes "your sexy, I want you" to me.
      Giving oral sex to her is my ambition. A beautiful clean pussy is one of the most wonderful things in the world. To bring her pleasure with my mouth is true worship of the goddess. Orgasim after orgasim is the way I worship her.
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      Thu, December 27, 2007 - 8:30 PM
      I've heard that using a vibrator can desensitize the clit or vulva, but I've never found that to be the case for me. Given my first choice, I love to have a sweet tongue on my pussy, but if no one else is around my vibrator works better for me than my fingers. I'm not much good with the 69 - I like to have my attention focused on what I'm doing and have never managed to stay at the peak arousal levels needed to orgasm at the same time.

      Perhaps you'll find that since much of arousal is in the mind retraining can be an easy and fun part of good sex.
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    Re: Oral Orgasm

    Wed, December 5, 2007 - 9:21 AM
    Oral is awesome!! I think it is the most intimate sexual act you can perform for your partner, and yes, I enjoy giving and receiving it very much. I also love 69, it may take longer, but what is wrong with that :)))) You know what the song says, "slow ride, take it easy"....mmmmmmmmm...
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    Re: Oral Orgasm

    Sun, December 16, 2007 - 12:11 PM
    What about just with hands?
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      Sun, December 16, 2007 - 6:34 PM
      that is where i got my nickname 'handyman' and thadiera, you would have to
      be my musical instrument (easy, just pretend you are a viola), and then we'd
      make beautiful music, me holding you with my left arm and stroking you with
      my right hand - as with every instrument, there are many techniques, moves,
      subtleties and innuendos, all expressions of the musician's experience, his
      improvisational talent, and his rapport with the instrument, focusing on your
      feedback (a LIVE instrument!) to produce the most satisfying performance it
      can be - would we be a duo or a solo act? with a live instrument, i'll say duo!

      handyman
      • Re: Oral Orgasm

        Sun, December 16, 2007 - 8:51 PM
        I've generally found handjobs more impersonal than fellatio or cunnilingus, though one partner of late was quite good at it. Considering I typically wear condoms these days for anal and vaginal sex, and have a hard time while wearing a condom, I've become acutely fond of oral sex for any real release with a partner. I love cumming in a gal's mouth, and watching her swallow is particularly hot. Just as exciting is going down on her: I love to make a woman moan, groan, scream, and cream. Love the taste, love the sounds, love the way she bucks uncontrollably when her orgasm takes her.
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      Sun, December 16, 2007 - 9:37 PM
      i honestly get my most intense orgasms via just hands. the human hand is a very subtle and versatile tool, and if used properly can bring sophisticated sensations that mouths or, due respect, other sundry holes can bring.
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        Sun, December 16, 2007 - 9:38 PM
        IMPERSONAL! wow that's a thought, have to ponder that a bit. wow that's a perception shift, it seems about as intimate as anything i can imagine.
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          Sun, December 16, 2007 - 10:19 PM
          Sure, think about it: we use our hands for just about *anything* outside of sex. Our mouths, on the other hand, are for eating, kissing (for some, breathing), and sex. I don't knock the capacity for digital manipulation and pleasuring, but the mouth is far more personal an instrument of pleasure, to my own mind, than the hand. Besides touching someone with your mouth, you're simultaneously tasting them, smelling them, and your ears are closer to hear their responses, too. Far more personal!
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            Mon, December 17, 2007 - 9:36 AM
            i couldn't disagree more. hands are inexorably tied to romance and love. how many songs about holding hands are there? where is it that we culturally place a physical pledge of forever love and companionship, on our hands. it seems you're also discounting what the mouth is doing while the hand is manipulating. it can be engaged in what is the most personal of exchanges, the spoken (loving and sensual to the lucky) word.
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            Mon, December 17, 2007 - 9:41 AM
            "Besides touching someone with your mouth, you're simultaneously tasting them, smelling them, and your ears are closer to hear their responses, too."

            that's not accurate at all, the head can be much closer to theirs during a hand job than is possible during oral. and you can be tasting them and smelling them also with digital manipulation. and there are many opportunities to mix techniques during either. i concentrated my discussion on the moment of orgasm, and the mouth is simply not capable of providing as vigorous a physical sensation as hands at that moment.
            do not forget that the mouth is for speaking also, which can be (and is for my partners and i) a very sexual act.
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              Mon, December 17, 2007 - 8:37 PM
              As I'm aurally stimulated, I agree about the wonders of the spoken word, but you still fail to convince me that hands are more intimate in oral endeavors than a mouth is. Short of sex itself, one of the most intimate things two people can do is kiss, and that by far surpasses holding hands. Indeed, I've heard oral sex referred to as 'genital kissing.' While the term may not sound endearing, the mouth by far beats the hands. Besides, just because a mouth is full doesn't mean one cannot exercise it--moan, hum, sigh, or simply move enough to speak clearly.
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                Mon, December 17, 2007 - 8:40 PM
                well i shouldn't hope to convince you any more than you should try to convince me what you value is more personal than what i value.
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    Wed, December 19, 2007 - 11:00 AM
    for me, giving oral pleasure to a women is the most erotic thing in the world. having her cum as I eat her out makes me hard as a rock. plus, I have more control of what areas I pleasure a woman with my tongue and lips.
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      Wed, December 26, 2007 - 5:31 AM
      Oral sex is, it has to be, more personal than manual sex. You don't transmit STDs by hand. My most intense orgasims come from a great handjob though. Having my lover go down on me is very much more a personal and intimate act. I have gotten a hand job watching a movie in a theater. We would have been arrested if she went down on me during a movie. I can give and receive a handjob at the same time in most public places but would never be able to have a 69 in the same location.

      All in all, with me and oral sex I believe it is better to give than to receive, but I'm not saying NO to a blow job either.
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    Sat, December 29, 2007 - 12:02 AM
    .. i do love oral... but then it find it not so satiable.. may be .. want more after that.. may be more oral..
    and well. am more of a giver... wud love to go down .. and stay there for long
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    Re: Oral Orgasm

    Wed, January 2, 2008 - 8:44 AM
    I love it, either giving or receiving. And 69 is one of my favorites. Especially when I lay on my back, and my lover lowers her magnificent ass to my face. I am very visual, and the view from there is one of my favorites. I can stay there forever. All the ladies I have known have been multi-orgasmic, so I just keep on giving, and always tell them that when they need to concentrate on what is being done to them, feel free to stop what they're doing to me. In fact, they don't need to do me at all, I just love licking them in that position. As for me going all the way with a woman giving me oral, some women can do that to me, some can't. But it's not about the ending to me, it's the journey.

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