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Sex parties

Judia — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 22:55:03 GMT

Ever been to one? If you have, where was it?

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Happy Holidays buddies

In2wishn — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:20:40 GMT

some music is my gift to you...enjoy

http://apps.facebook.com/reverbnation_fb/artist/DavidRona?autoPlay=3026864

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Don't follow LEVI JOHNSTON'S porn, with a sneak of Sally, down a riotous, lower-48 alley, you INCITERS TO RIOT, violating CPC 404.6(a)!!

Bob — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 00:18:10 GMT

Don't mess with Sasquatch.

Don't play with MISTER Clinton or his actual-Republican Strategist wifey.

Don't be a complete Dick Obama, try to lose to superior Bush pilots by diving to Joe Plumber, and pretend to peace.

Don't be a Giuliani, trying to suck a dirigible of death or two into Yankee Stadium, right into the on-deck area.

Don't impose deregulated energy deals, impair ERT communications, let them into the towers, and watch them DIE, like Rudy Giuliani did, and then quash all notice of how you flipped D.U. shooting galleries, to get Usama, for offering to kill Saddam, and expect the towers back up, to where the prices of food and energy are, now.

Don't be an idiot into LED ZEPPELIN, a Nixon-dupe group, and think Black Sunday is always about lousy football.

Don't be an oblivious General Cone, about to let Giuliani look like an Ethiopian mutant, who won't let any court know Jews are from Ethiopia, but when Bonds offers, "Isaiah," when he hits 756 into the Cove, to pass Aaron, in 2005, he was certain to be prosecuted, ILLEGALLY, but Rudy gets to camp on the third-base line, years after Torre dodged!

D-D-Don't be too ignorant, too stupid, and TOO GUILTY AND GREEDY, in the same stadium, year after year.

Don't let NBC run Jon bon Jovi, Jenna Bush, Matt Lauer, and anything else lousy, and call a Muslim, "Zippy," but you stinking pinheads won't allow you are so full of BRIT, you let them invent a word, when their BRAT-Crusaders figured they needed to charge through Shiites in Teheran, through the Chinese, to Beijing, to keep Jerusalem.

SO IN THE VICTORIAN CRUSADE, THE BRITS INVADED CHINA AND KEPT HONG KONG, AS A COLONY.

THE USA INVADED IN THE SAND PEBBLES INCIDENT, IN THE 1948 CIA LIBERATOR OVER-FLYING FROM TIBET AND TAIWAN, AND IN THE KOREAN WAR, TO ESTABLISH A YALU PERIMETER, THEN REPULSED.

Don't be an idiot, named "TED," and think you get to ignore the Chinese Ming Dynasty's WHITE FLEET, which left wrecked sailors and descendants all over the Indies from a hurricane in the 1430s, and so Columbus and the USA call natives, 'INDIANS,' in deliberate error and at international riot and incitement, for chill, or orders, to desist and disband.

Don't be an IDIOT, and order a SMART PERSON, to his certain death, which Major Hassan faced, if deployed.

JEWS ARE FROM ETHIOPIA, neatly, criminals, illegally gathered, at riot and mayhem! Back up!

If you SUCK SO HARD, bon Jovi is your band and Sally Palin at riot should sneak Mann Act violations up Levi's butt, without knowing his backfield can get like Eli's, watch out for Ben, Favre, Peyton, and their guys, as well, since they get blitzed, and YOU DO NOT BELONG IN THEIR STADIUM, trying to suck rocks and rockets, both.

Don't be an idiotic Bush-pilot and think you get to fly on back, to where the 48 states need to re-configure, without the illegally gathered Alaska and Hawaii, which may need to revert, since you geeks let riot rage, many years, to undermine all funding.

GOT FUNDS? No. GOT LEGAL STANDING? Not after PRC smartens up and class-actions in California, with me!

Got Yao Ming, in Houston? YOU HAVE A PROBLEM, WHEN HE GETS REALLY, REALLY PAID, FOR INJURIES.

Got Pandas? We got KFP in SF, so funny when he has Chinese Navy DNA, about 600 years old, like Yao's.

Get a clue about the Molinas and Edgar Renterria, you might have to pay them extra rent.

But when you SUCK, don't blow up a zeppelin, and then inhale the thing into our stadia, in the USA, when you riot and incite, internationally, so badly, we might have to call Torre to help Girardi, with what the jerky-front office neglects!!

Seen TITANIC? In the movie, the stern hoists, so call it HOWARD CARTOONS. The real HMS Titanic snapped and wallowed by the stern, as the bow plummeted.

When the water reached the third class passengers, they swam out like a herd of Rattus Norweigicus, on holiday, on ice. So, are you a SMART Indian, for getting all wild, without knowing MING IS THE THING? No. Singh is one king.

MING had the White Fleet, decommissioned, April 6, 1437.

TRUMP had Jacko's handjob, apparently. Look at Blanket Michael and Paris, obviously of THE Donald, you see?

ALL YOUR JUNK IS ILLEGAL CONSTRUCTION, at a riot. You sold punk rock to the Chinese, after Nixon duped it so hard, Nixon freak Bowie sued Reagan-thug Vanilla Ice and tore off a riff, they BOTH duped, inc.

So all the lawyers are sucked up the government-corporate conspiracy, REALLY! The PRC will sue, or lose holdings.

Don't mess with the PRC, just now, since the White Fleet had an Arab eunuch for a navigator, and today, Mr.Marin's BALLS ITCH, don't they! When you won't legalize pot to save the air and water, make way, for a committee, or Islam.

OR MAKE WAY, FOR BOTH. But you pigs into Crusades since Victoria may not assert your BRITS or your SHIT, for cause, chill or be served a lawful order, to disband.

There's a lot more baseball left to play, when you guys notice ESCAPE FROM NEW YORK foreshadows Tim Lincecum's arrival, in MLB.

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meeting fun loving women

edward — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 16:39:45 GMT

love to get together and meet someone on here and take it from there.

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make-out buddie

reggie — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 17:12:49 GMT

i love kissing and would welcome a make-out buddie. if you like to kiss, we should get together.

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Weekend party in Vegas (Aug 5-9)... Looking for female companion to party for FREE!!!

digitaldallas — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 21:02:05 GMT

That's right... No strings what so ever...

This weekend is going to be a blast in Las Vegas. The Social Group based out of Tennessee in collaboration with a few others is hosting a weekend long party and meet-and-greet for all to come and have a good time. There will be several planned activities (including a naughty pool party and food play seminar) as well as numerous afterparties and get-togethers.

For info on the party go to: www.jpjustparties.com

Sadly my original partner. will not be attending the TSC weekend party in Vegas as originally planned. A minor crisis occurred at her work and having her come in on the weekend. This leaves me with a spare admittance to the party.

This admittance is for a lady (single or not) to accompany me for FREE at the party. Although, I certainly wouldn't mind, I'm not attaching any sexual favors to this offer nor am I committing you to "be my pair" for the weekend. You are certainly free to go where you want with whom you please after we have checked into the party. You can even bring your male partner along for the weekend (but I cannot get him the party unless he pays his own way). I simply paid for a couples week long pass and now my female partner cannot make it.

I will have a hotel room near the Vegas Strip which I will be (sadly) occupying alone. If you're a single (or solo female player) and would like to bunk with me in my room, I can work something out on that. I'm even willing to work something out for couples (maybe share room cost or something).

Anyway, what I'm offering is a FREE PASS for a lovely lady for some fun this weekend at my expense. I will be in Vegas flying in Thursday afternoon and there is wireless internet at the hotel room. So if you're interested, please message here and we can establish personal contact...

Thanks!!!

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any fun loving girls out in chicago??

Funguy — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 23:56:19 GMT

write to me, looking to have some fun tonite.

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any females in Jacksonville, FL

Funguy — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 17:44:33 GMT

Hi, I am on a business trip in Jacksonville and looking to have a good time...if interested write to me.

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Sonoma County Man Seeks Female For Regular Play Dates

Tom — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 22:17:10 GMT

Hi there ladies...I'm a Santa Rosa white male thats looking for a like minded female to meet on a semi-regular to regular basis for a mutually benficial pleasure.

I'm not hung up on age, size, shape, color, or political tenets, just a great attitude, good sense of humor, and an open-minded approach to exploring your sexuality and fantasies. Although this would mostly be about connecting on a physical level, I'd also like to enjoy your company before and after..so being able to hold a conversation is a plus!

Anyway, I'm very open-minded and easy going...I ahve vertually NO hang-ups or taboos and generally lead a life of live and let live. I hope to hear from one of you Sonoma County ladies!

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Who wants to party in Alpharetta?

Racer XXX — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 00:44:07 GMT

I'm housesitting for a week. there's swank accomodations for Rodney Dangerfield style antics here: Pool Table; Dartboard; Giant Flatscreen, comfy couches and fancy decor.

whose down?

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Last days in Vegas... Any fun loving ladies out for Memorial Weekend?

digitaldallas — Fri, 22 May 2009 23:09:42 GMT

I'll be leaving Vegas soon and commuting weekly for business (two days at a time) for the next month.
Any fun loving ladies out there wanna have some fun in Sin City?

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Philly FWB?

MaxBiPhillyMale — Fri, 22 May 2009 22:15:00 GMT

Any females looking for a FWB in the Philly area please say hello
Ask me to add you as a friend for my friends only pics !

:)

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looking for female company in Jacksonville

Funguy — Mon, 04 May 2009 18:40:54 GMT

traveling to Jacksonville next week (May 11) and would like to meet up somone for fun...

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Any females in the bay area

david — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 04:35:45 GMT

I live in Palo Alto in c.a., anyone from around the bay area

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FEM PEGGING MALE

sleek — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 01:01:38 GMT

any real girls into pegging real men?

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male for fun on Nh seacoast

obsidian — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 00:29:56 GMT

Send pic to recieve

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In reno!

mofire — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 06:14:04 GMT

Looking for new friends in the biggest little city. New (from sf) and horny ? R u? Or at least curious?

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Male looking for a female buddy in Concord

Milandro — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 22:56:15 GMT

Looking for some playful afternoon love in the eastbay. Massages and conversations.

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looking for Kansas Hotties?

Jimmy — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 05:34:32 GMT

Looking for some Kansas Hotties to hook up with for parting time.

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Its hard

Dave — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 01:18:40 GMT

Its real hard to get some buddy's that like to f*** over here on the East Coast in Philly. If your in the area, lets see if we can be buddy's. Women only please.

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looking for a lady for me and my wife

rock & roll — Tue, 01 Apr 2008 13:32:04 GMT

how do I look for a good lady for me and my wife to play with in idaho?

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Berkeley

Dave — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 10:15:46 GMT

I think that I'm the only one awake all of the time in Berkeley.

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New Name For Sex

dsoul — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 12:53:43 GMT

Come up with a codename you and your partner could use to let the other one know you want to have sex.

"Let's go and sin a little," is mine.

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Seems like everyone is on the West Coast

Dave — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 00:38:53 GMT

Hey,

I am from the east coast, in PA. What does it take to get a buddy here?

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Is LA DEAD?

markymark — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 17:47:28 GMT

I have been looking for some discreet friends in the LA area but most seem unreal, stuck up or just too freaky....are there any normal playbuddies around wanting to meet up once in a while?

MarkyMark

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Buddy's in Philly?

Dave — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 00:44:08 GMT

Hey,

If your in the Philadelphia area, then lets become buddy's.

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Looking in Berkeley CA

phantomlord — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 11:27:53 GMT

29 yo fun male looking for FWB in or around East Bay. Any females interested?

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Burning Man 2008 Hedonic Sensuous Massage Campmates

Sound Man — Sun, 03 Aug 2008 17:57:15 GMT

We are the organizers of the Burning Man 2008 Hedonic Sensuous Massage theme camp. Join us in offering sensuous massages to fellow "burners". No experience necessary. You only need to be a normally sensual person and willing to learn. We are a fun-loving group of amateur yet erotic men and women who seek the same to serve the community with an exceptional experience of a lifetime with the goal being their most enjoyable, happy, and sensuous massage ever. If interested, call Aloha and SoundMan at (775) 233-3608 and check out Aloha's myspace.com site "Aloha BRC Burner" at http://www.myspace.com/alohaburner for a complete description of our previous years' camps. We will be located at Gemini and 4:30

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Alabama

BuBbaJoHn — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 17:22:59 GMT

any one in Alabama ??????????????
this seems to be a dead state .LOL

BuBba JoHn

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Looking in Memphis

Walking Bear — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 00:26:49 GMT

Anyone Around?

WB

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Younger man looking for sexy mature woman

Alchemystique — Sat, 31 May 2008 19:44:30 GMT

Hi there. I am in 30 something attractive and love to please mature women, 35-55 age range. I am a sexual healer, loving to use my tongue, fingers and the rest of my body to give you immeasurable pleasure. With my lovers I please them until they beg me to stop. I believe in full and complete presence and attention to every moan, groan, and subtle movement you make, to bring you the ultimate pleasure.

In my opinion a beautiful woman’s body is like the most exquisite musical instrument, with which I would love to play making the most delicious music. I play this magnificent instrument masterfully bringing it to multiple climaxes and crescendos.

I believe that a full sexual/sensual experience is a physical, energetic connection among other things, where we join together in a multitude of ways. In so being it would include very long hours of slow sweet love making, lots of hard fast intense sex, deep relaxing massage, long deep slow leisurely foreplay, long hot showers, as well cuddling, fondling, playing, dancing, laughing, dining among other fun things to do.

I should also mention that I am in an open relationship and not single. I am open to various ages but I have found that I have the most amazing chemistry with mature women. This is because in my humble opinion fine women are like fine wine and get better and more scrumptious as they age.

If this sounds like something you enjoy, drop me a line and we can take it from there.

Looking forward to hearing from all of you sexy cougars out there.

Thanks!
Me

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Still Looking????

John A. Wilson — Wed, 14 May 2008 17:38:27 GMT

I'm on the prowl for a nice female fuckbuddie, anyone looking? It seams nearly imposible to meet someone this way on tribe...People are even too jaded to use the dating tribes for dating...whats up with that? But why not try, it could be fun.

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Come on over ... I'm a Sex machine!

dsoul — Thu, 08 May 2008 09:42:28 GMT

Wouldn't you love to be like that classic James Brown song? How long can you keep up having sex for an entire day?

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L.A. sybian get-together

Sybian — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 18:14:10 GMT

Hey there friends,
I'll be heading down from the bay area at the end of May for a few days and am trying to decide whether to bring along my sybian for some fun with like minded tribers. If you've ever wondered what it would be like to give on a whirl, let me know. Last Saturday I hosted a small get-together at my home and Both women had amazing g-spot, squirting orgasms that I couldn't even begin to count. We taped some of it, but it's just not polite to share some things. The total riding time between the two was almost four hours! As a man, I find it hard to wrap my mind around what that might be like. Maybe in my next life. So give me a yell, bring some friends, and prepare for some great laughs, as many utterly amazing orgasms you can handle, and bonding! Enjoy.

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Male Gigolos/Male Escort Services

dsoul — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:18:30 GMT

Would anybody have any idea on how to become one? And do women still patronise such fellas?

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Ladies in OC --------

LeDuge — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 16:28:59 GMT

Take me free for an hour ................... - lol - like that would ever happen.

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Looking for fuck buddy in Bay Area

cnote6920032003 — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 15:08:09 GMT

Hello fellow tribers, My name is Charles Brown, and i am new to the bay area. I am looking for any women or couples that want to have some eXXXtreme fun, I might be able to bring your biggest fantasies to life,(sex on a beach, screaming orgasms, wet 'n' wild, dominatrix or whatever else it may be, I love SEX and want to have a lot of it, I do not charge, I am not a prostitute. simply wanna have fun. I live in Berkeley, and can travel the entire S.F. Bay Area.

Yours 4 fun,
Charles
write back soon;)

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Any women in here from Washington looking for a buddy?

Jason — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:32:55 GMT

Any women in here from Washington looking for a buddy?

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Documentary - The Nympho

Tim — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 19:23:33 GMT

My name is Tim Seitz and I am making a movie that celebrates the "Slut", I'm making a documentary about real "Nymphos", proud sluts who enjoy life and don't hide their celebration of sex. The two "stars" of the documentary are-

Lisa Sparxxx - Once the world record gangbang girl for having sex with over 900 guys www.lisasparxxx.com
Oasis - An Arizona girl who has bareback parties that are viedotaped www.cum2oasis.com

We will be interviewing other women who call themselves "nymphos" or "sluts", in order to be interviewed you must be-

18 years of age or older
Female (not transgendered)
Straight or Bisexual

We will be doing phone and video interviews for the movie.

To be considered please send an e-mail to me at cladinblak@aol.com
Tell me why you consider yourself a "Slut" or "Nympho" and would you be willing to be interviewed on video for the movie.

Thank you!

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TRUE STORY - My Past

Thu, 14 Feb 2008 16:00:06 GMT

POSTED RELUCTANTLY, upon request from emailers:

I didn’t want to admit this to my Tribe.net buddies, but so many have suspected that I have a “past,” I felt that perhaps I should reveal just what that amounted to – well, some of it anyway.

When I was 18 and stupid, I needed money to go to school. I was advised by some other young women that pole-dancing would be a good way to make some money fast.

Well, that was somewhat overstated. But, after a brief whirlwind of searching, I found myself in the position as one of five young women chosen by an agency for an adult entertainment venture that would be a level above that. This was more difficult for me than the other four because I had been shy my entire life, burdened with an overwhelming sense of inferiority and weakness.

We five were enrolled in acting classes and, over the next six months, learned acting techniques, including comedy and dance.

During that time, I’d also enrolled in a community college and began dating my first-year sociology instructor who I’d marry a year later. He’s also a post-grad-studies engineer. He made me understand that what I was getting involved in would be a short-term career that almost certainly would be a dead-end job within five years, whereas a solid education would be a better bet. An adult-entertainment background isn’t the best resume for future stage work.

I told my husband-to-be that I’d been involved in some silent fuck films that were no more than videos produced for sordid advertising, internet clips, magazine postings and other low-end venues. Additionally, we were expected to fuck the producers and their friends at fund-raising parties and social gatherings. All this paid us five naïve girls a percentage of the take and paid back the agency for its investment in us five naïve girls. Nothing in life is free.

Having descended into society’s lowest depths, every element of shyness and inferiority I had experienced had now evaporated.

When my school’s next semester began, and I became a full-time “real” student. Had I remained with the agency, I’d have been on the adult-club circuit and taking roles in feature adult films, although not in a starring role. Those roles were then becoming money makers for the top one percent or so of actresses but the chances of achieving that are small for all others wannabes. It has now become so lucrative that only a small fraction of one percent reach that height of success.

Between his growing consultant business and his teaching positions, my husband made more money than I’d ever dream of achieving at doing anything else. And I was beginning to see how sleazy that other world was anyway.

Unless you’re at the top of the game, giving an adult performer the option of making her world pretty much whatever she wants it to be, it’s far worse than anyone outside that business can imagine. That business robs its employees of their souls.

And, finally, most people I meet, or correspond with, mistakenly assume I’m “really smart.” I’m not. Although I ultimately graduated, I had a lot of trouble with science and math. I fucked three instructors, an associate professor and a full professor to obtain additional instruction. Each told me beforehand that, although they would help, they wouldn’t adjust my grades upward. My grades were average.

The real reason some believe I’m smart is because of those acting classes. For all its Olympian faults, I’ll give the adult entertainment business that much credit. For its social reasons, overcoming my inferiority and just-plain fooling people, that tiny portion of my experiences was useful.

So that’s my past history, which I now assume will explain to my Tribe.net buddies how I developed the attitudes I now have.

I can’t recall how many readers of my few stories have asked, “Why can’t my wife (or girlfriend) see things like you?” Well, they didn’t go through the crap I did.

I apologize for not being fully forthcoming to those who I have answered. I’m truly sorry. Maybe the above will make up for it.

I regret much of my past. Except here to my friends on Tribe.net, it’s hidden. But Oscar Wilde once said, “All saints have a past. All sinners have a future.”

~~ "T"

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Buddies forever but only one week to fuck

Jason — Fri, 15 Feb 2008 16:27:36 GMT

I'm not sure what the average fuck:buddy ratio is but I'll be in SF for a week at the end of March and I'm looking to make buddies via e-mail first and then to add to fuck side of the equation when I am in town. After that we can go back to working on the buddy side until we next meet again, if we do.

So.....anyone interested in messing around with this ratio and seeing what we come up with? I'm a bit of an exhibitionist and will be at a hotel with very large windows!!

Let's talk and see how things feel. Females preferred but I sometimes say yes to the oral offers of males.

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When am I...........

LeDuge — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:16:30 GMT

considered a born again virgin. Its been coming on 5 mnths since I have last had a taste. Any ladies want to re-teach a virgin? I need a teacher to train me - lol.

Its due to my wife being pregnant by the way -

Teacher still needed !!!!!!!!!!!! Lets make a game of it.

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Share the Bliss of All-Chakra Lovemaking w/ Dr. Sasha Lessin & Janet Lessin

Sat, 02 Feb 2008 17:27:51 GMT

Share the Bliss of All-Chakra Lovemaking w/ Dr. Sasha Lessin & Janet Lessin

The Patti Taylor Show, "Expanded Lovemaking" Episode 33
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-
lovemaking/episodes/3493-sharing-bliss-chakra-lovemaking-dr-sasha

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Dr. Sasha Lessin and his wife,
Janet Lessin, about All-Chakra Tantra. The Lessins are the founders
of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii, where they teach people to
make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck
places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full
orgasmic presence. Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them
to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony. Experience for yourself a
dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using
the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can
feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this
in your own home with the handout the Lessins give. Then, tune in as
Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm. Sasha
very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes
every little nuance and pleasure from Janet's clit and "cave", as
well as creating her "gushing" over the edge. Youwill get lots of
specific ideas. Janet's commentaries on the emotional impact of
Sasha's touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of
their spoken words to one another. Learn the kind of work the Lessins
do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional
blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how
easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they
connect their work to planetary healing.

How to Really Love A Woman
Transcript

Dr. Patti Taylor: Welcome to the Expanded Lovemaking show. I'm your
host, Dr. Patti Taylor of Expanded Lovemaking dot com, and I teach
you how to give and receive way more pleasure than you ever dreamed
possible. Today on the show, we are talking about sharing the bliss
of all chakra lovemaking with a partner. Usually, we have guests on
talking about what they do. Today, we're so lucky to have two experts
on the show experiencing intimate yet powerful lovemaking and talking
to us as they go through it themselves. I'll be inviting you to join
in energetically and to take back juicy knowledge and energy into
your own lovemaking enjoyment. Our guests are Dr. Sasha Lessin, Dean
of the School of Tantra, with his wife, Janet Lessin, Professor of
Tantric Studies at the School of Tantra. So, welcome, Sasha and Janet
Lessin.

Janet Lessin: Aloha! Thank you for having us here.

Sasha Lessin: Aloha.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Hi, so, Dr. Sasha Lessin is a practicing
psychotherapist and relationship counselor for over thirty years who
brings many special skills to his counseling, including hypnotherapy,
holotropic breathing, healing and past-life regressions, spirit
releasement, and voice dialogue. Janet Lessin is an accomplished
writer and teacher of Tantra. Sasha and Janet teach their diverse
healing and spiritual paths together through their School of Tantra.
They're the authors of All Chakra Tantra and How to Really Love a
Woman, amongst many other incredible books and things that they've
created. They live in Maui, Hawaii, where they offer workshops,
ceremonies, singles events, couples events, residential retreats,
Tantra training of all sorts, and they also do counseling by phone. I
think our listeners will love this show because, in a real life
experience, you can feel the energy instead of just hearing about it.
And I've always loved being able to model myself after experts. So
today, then, we will find out all about All Chakra Tantra and have
some demonstrations of the Lessins' most requested teachings.
Hopefully some of them, anyway. Including creating an intimate female
ejaculatory lovemaking session. So let's get started! Let's find out
a little bit about All Chakra Tantra, and I think we need to start
out finding out what is a chakra. So hello, and can you tell us a
little about All Chakra Tantra?

Sasha Lessin: Oh, I'd love to, and I'll be posting this stuff on your
site, Patti, so people can get it. Tantra, one of its meanings
is "weaving." It means weaving all levels of your awareness, and
these levels we call "chakras." These are things within you and
between you and those you love. Think of the chakras with your body
parts, the bottom of your torso, genitals is the next one, belly,
heart, throat, brain, then the neocortex. And these are the parts
that make you aware of first security, the sexuality, then power,
love is the heart, talk the throat, clarity- that's the vision
center. And spiritual connection. Each of these chakras constitues an
inner dimension within you and an outer dimension between you and
your lovers, and in each chakra you have a number of sub-cells or
inner voices, energies concerned with the tasks of the chakra
involved. Now, in All Chakra Tantra, you center yourself at each
chakra with regard to the sub-cells active in the issues of concern
to that chakra so you have the benefit of consulting them all. That's
within you. And then you also center yourself in your lover
relationship, so you create a two-person, or multi-person if you're
polyamorous- an interpersonal entity. It could be diadic or triadic,
but it weaves your needs with those of your lovers, and you and your
lovers join together in an ocean of consciousness and merge with all
of the humanities. And of course- let's look at each one, really get
a feeling for it. The first chakra relates to your perineum, it
concerns your need to feel, belong, feel safe, secure, and to take
care of your inner child. And balance within yourself means being
able to take care of this vulnerable part, the part that feels
emotions and can be hurt so easily, and the part of you that protects
that, being able to have a balance. You can decide how emotional
you're going to be. It means that if you're in a Tantric
relationship, you help your mate feel emotionally and financially
secure and take care of each other's health. So that's the first
chakra. We do a whole lot of real, real integration, of getting past
the programs that our inner children have from their parents, the
parents in the real world, so that we can be free to be with our
lovers.

Dr. Patti Taylor: And the perineum is located where?

Sasha Lessin: It's between the genitals and the anal sphincter area.
This is how you relate to the earth. Your security, your sense of
belonging to life, belonging to a relationship. It's really critical
that our children, the sensitive part of us, be allowed to be present
in our lovemaking.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I would think without that active, that you
couldn't even really start your lovemaking.

Sasha Lessin: No, it's really hard. You have to distinguish your
lover from your dad and your mother so that you are just present with
what's real for you in the relationship. It's totally critical. We're
conditioned by so many little habits that we imprinted without even
thinking by seeing how our parents interacted, and by our society.
What we want to do is get free to really feel our sensorium and be
present with all of our emotions. And that means you have to feel
safe with your lover. That's the first chakra, and that's where the
bonding patterns take place, and how to keep sweet interaction going.
The second chakra is what we're going to deal with a bit today, which
is your sexual needs, and within you it's being able to express
yourself sexually and when to hold back. So in other words, for every
chakra we try to balance ourselves out, many aspects of us that are
concerned with in this case chakra two, the sexual chakra. We try to
center ourselves among the impulses we have so we can make
discriminating behaviors. For women, what we teach of the second
chakra, we teach women how to have ejaculatory orgasms, where a fluid-
anrida, it's called, it's alkaline -comes down from the urinary
bladder down the urethra and squirts or burbles out, accompanied by a
clitoral and vaginal orgasm, and it's really great. For a man we
teach complete and total ejaculatory control, which is really very
easy once you control your abdominal muscles. That's chakra two. The
third chakra relates to the belly-diaphragm area. We have power,
being able to lead or follow in the relationship, being able to let
the other person lead, and being able to encourage them to take
what's rightfully theirs in life. The fourth chakra- and we're going
to be demonstrating each one of these when we do our lovemaking in a
little bit, the re-enactment. But the fourth chakra is the heart
chakra, being able to give love and to get love, to not- being so
balanced within you means you're not into giving all the time so you
use up all your energy and feel resentful, or not just demanding all
the time so that you're so selfish no one wants to relate to you, but
the balance. The fifth chakra is the throat chakra, and here we're
concerned with expression, being able to both say what's really real
for you in your authenticity and being able to keep your mouth shut
when what you say won't be helpful, true, or kind. So, being able to
choose what we say and don't say, and to really be able to hear each
other. And then the next chakra, of course, is the brain chakra, and
this is where you have vision, where you see things, intuit, and the
intellect, where you think things. And all those, we ask that to be
present in All Chakra lovemaking, and that's really, really
important, too. Lots of times when you're making love you'll have
visions of your childhood or past lives or archetypes or movies your
saw. Let all those things happen. It really enriches everything. The
seventh chakra, your crown chakra, we think of as opening up and
allowing you to become spiritually one, so that you're not feeling
separate at all from the person you're making love with, but you are
one. You transcend your separate-self sense in that sense, so you're
not just identified with little you and not just identified with your
mate, but you identify with everything in the world, and that is the
spiritual dimension that we seek. And there's a little chant that
goes with it. And we're going to show you how we bring all that stuff
into our lovemaking.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow, that's really exciting, and I'm really looking
forward to this. I think a lot of our listeners would love to be
having that kind of fully integrated, alive on all levels kind of
lovemaking.

Sasha Lessin: Cool. Yeah, we love to share that, and also on the site
we have a thing that you can do by yourself where you feel each
chakra, where you empower your inner child, you empower your sexual
part. You go through each one of these. There's the chant you can do
yourself looking in a mirror or, as we'll be doing in a little bit,
with one lover putting their legs around the hips of the other and
looking into each other's eyes and then making these sounds called
the Bija Mantra. These Sanskrit sounds that activate these chakras
doing blessings. We'll be doing that after the break.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Okay, cool. Well, I know this is going to be sort
of the short version of what could take possibly hours, so I thank
you for- but I guess you could do this in a long version of a short
version, so let's go ahead and give it a roll here. I'm all juicy and
waiting to let it go.

Janet Lessin: Okay. So, we begin with the setup. While the woman is
taking a bath and preparing herself for her Tantric ritual, her
beloved prepares the space. And he puts out beautiful tapestries, or
lights incense and candles and brings flowers. He's interviewed her
beforehand so he knows what kind of music she likes, what kinds of
things she likes to relax, maybe some fine wine or something. At our
home, we're located high on West Maui Mountain, and for our date
today, we have the phone on today because we're talking to you, but
normally we turn off the phone, and we would lock all the doors, and
turn off the TV, and get into a sacred ritual space. In our location,
we're very fortunate. Our bed overlooks beautiful Maui Harbor, where
we see windsurfers on the north shore. Sasha has prepared our Tantric
lovemaking nest, and there's tapestries showing deities making love
and he's put down all these wonderful, comfy pillows, and lots of
towels so that when the woman- when I -eventually ejaculate, I won't
be worried about wetting the bed.

Sasha Lessin: If she wets the bed, it's the man's reponsibility to
sleep in the wet spot after. So what we do, way before we even
connect like this, we take the time to share our emotions, so we
makes sure there's no unfinished emotional business that hasn't been
resolved and we can be fully present. Then we sit in this- it's
called "yab yung" position, it's got her legs over mine. And now we
breathe in and out at the same time and gaze in one another's left
eyes. As I let my awareness flow through Janet's left eye, beyond her
face, beyond her present form, I go to her deep soul, to the core of
her. And she's doing the same for me. She meditates on experiencing
my essence through my left eye. It's a portal to my soul. And when I
feel her deepest essence, I can feel that contact, and then it
resonates within me. Her consciousness and mine, I can realize, are
identical. She is me and I am she and we are one. We experience this
existential love. Unity.

Janet Lessin: Then we move into syncopated breaths, where one is
breathing out and the other is breathing in. We're sharing breath.
And I breathe out through my mouth towards Sasha's nose, and he
inhales my breath through his nostrils. Then I inhale through my nose
and he breathes out through his mouth towards my nose. Each time I
inhale I say to myself, "He loves me." Each time I exhale into his
nose, I say to myself, "I love you." And he does the same meditation.

Sasha Lessin: I love you.

Janet Lessin: Back and forth. "I love you, you love me," with each
exhale and inhale.

Sasha Lessin: And now, as we keep gazing into each other's eyes, we
chant this ancient Sanskrit mantra. It's got seven syllable
words, "lam," "bam," "ram," "yam," "ham," and "ohm." Each syllable
will activate a different one of these chakras that we were talking
about. The "lam" will pump our perineum, the "bam" will invigorate
our genitals, "ram" empowers our bellies, "yam" heals our
hearts, "ham" frees our voices. Our third eye, from our head to the
occipit vibrates with "oh," and we think and intuit at the same time.
Then we chant "m" and our crowns open and unite us with all that is
and will be. When we complete the seven syllables, we tighten our PC
muscles and our belly muscles, pulse our anuses, and imagine energy
flowing from the tip of our spine, the bottom, up through our bodies,
out our crowns, where our energies meet. So we're going to chant
these, and if you want to and it's safe to do so, you can even chant
them with them, and they are "lam, bam, ram, yam, ham, and ohm." So
here we go.

Sasha and Janet Together: Lam, bam, ram, yam, ham, oh, m.

Sasha Lessin: Belly hold until you feel this whole field of energy,
baby.

Janet Lessin: So we're vibrating together, sweetheart, in every one
of our chakras.

Sasha Lessin: Oh, sweetheart, thank you for letting me worship and
adore you. I delight in serving you, and I love relating this
intimately. May my adoration heal hurts I have caused you or others
have caused you. May our hearts unite, and may we become one with the
universe. What would you like to say to consecrate the worship I
offer you, darling?

Janet Lessin: Sweetheart, I love how you take the time to pleasure
and honor who I am. You slow things down and listen to me kindly.
Your love compels me until time is slow or all stands still. And
nothing else seems to exist but you and me, as we become one with the
infinite and all that there is. You help me to evolve, grow, expand
in my path to consciousness. I appreciate how you meet me and are so
present, touch me sweetly and softly, and speak these wonderful words
to me as I dissolve into higher states of consciousness, and from
there I can see other worlds and other realms and dimensions, and
find new ways of being and becoming a more loving self. Thank you, my
love.

Sasha Lessin: Okay, honey, I'm going to lie you down on your back. I
wanted to dedicate my intention in this connect. I'm going to put
first my left hand on your heart, there. You put your hand on top of
mine. My right hand is going to be on each one of your chakras as I
bless each. These are called mudras, it's to put you in
the "moodras," so to speak. So first, I put my hand lightly on your
perineum. Pulse your anal sphincter, honey. Sweetheart, I love you, I
want you to feel your base, to enjoy health, safety, and security. I
want you to know you belong and please, may your inner child be
present in this lovemaking. Feel the energy, feel the energy. Now I'm
going to touch your labia. I love you at your yoni- that's Sanskrit
for "vagina" -and bless you sensually. May you be sensual, creative,
and sexual. May your goddess of sensuality, the second chakra
goddess, be present for this trice. Now I'm going to touch your
belly. I love you in your power chakra. Take what's yours,
sweetheart. May the goddess of strength enjoy the sensual touch we
share at your genital chakra. Now I'm going to put both hands on your
heart. I send you love. May you feel the touch with pleasure. May
your romantic subpersonality enjoy this experience. Now the back of
your neck with my right hand. I love you, may you say your thoughts,
make sounds, and express as you connect with me. I'm going to touch
your brow. I celebrate how you understand and intuit. I invite your
visionary to give you images and insight as I stroke your grotto. And
lastly I touch the top of your head. I love you and merge with you.
May your spiritual self be present and may you experience unity with
the universe. And now, sweetheart- oh, this feels so good -I'd like
to give you a gentle massage all over. I'm going to especially rub
the grasillus muscles- that is, the muscles on the inside of each of
your thighs -because massaging this grasillus muscle also stimulates
the lateral ends of your hidden clitoral tissues. There we go. Feel
that?

Janet Lessin: Yeah.

Sasha Lessin: Now your belly muscles, just above the pubic bone, so
that the energy can flow from your power chakra- that's the third
chakra -down from your navel to your genital chakra. It takes a
while. We do a long massage. So we'll just jump to the chase, here,
and I'll say to Janet...I'd really like to give some focused touch to
your temple of love, honey.

Janet Lessin: Okay. Please, please do.

Sasha Lessin: I'm going to massage, then I'm going to kiss your
genital drapes and the valance, so to speak, over your pearl-
clitoral tip. I want you to make sounds and direct me with words or
sounds, give me feedback. I'm going to lick and stroke. I won't be
able to talk soon, but what I'll be doing is I'll be lightly stroking
her outer labia. Relaxing her clitoral hood-

Dr. Patti Taylor: Before we do that, can I just jump in for a second,
before I hop on a plane to Hawaii? First thing I want to say is that
it's totally astonishing, and we are just going to have to pause for
break. Can you, like, hang out in that space for a moment?

Sasha Lessin: Sure, I'll just be sure not to rub her the wrong way.

Dr. Patti Taylor: I don't think that's possible. But we do have to
stop for a quick break, to support our sponsors. You guys just hang
out there. I'm shaking from head to toe, so it won't be a problem for
me. This is Dr. Patti Taylor, and I'm with Sasha and Janet Lessin in
their magical space, and we will be right back. You can learn more
about Sasha and Janet at www.schooloftantra.com.

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Dr. Patti Taylor: We're back, and we are talking about sharing the
bliss of All Chakra Lovemaking with a partner. We were talking about
the All Chakra Tantra blessing, and now we are going into the female
ejaculatory orgasm. Why don't you just keep going?

Sasha: Okay. While we've had the break, I've been stroking her labia,
and gently, gently rolling the clitoral hood around the crown itself.
And I notice, now, that her vaginal lips are starting to swell. The
outer lips are swelling and now I can see the beautiful little inner
lips. I trace circles, spirals, horizontals, verticals, diagonals,
figure eights on them with my finger. I alternate long and short
strokes. Playful. Tap, rub, knead. It takes a lot of air time, but we
would do this for about fifteen minutes until the clitoral hood
itself starts to push back and I can see the tip of the clitoris
itself, and then I say...sweetheart, would you like me to polish your
pearl?

Janet Lessin: Oh, yes. Oh-ho, yes.

Sasha Lessin: First I blow on your genitals. It's really important
not to blow inside the vagina because it's an anaerobic system, but I
just want to make some hot air on the outside, little baby kisses on
the clitoris. I'm going to twirl my tongue around the crown and lick
your labia and reach softly into your yoni with my fingers. All the
time, even though I'm down here, I'm looking into your eyes. I
salivate as much as I can to really lubricate your orifice.

Janet Lessin: Ah, yes. Thank you. What I'm experiencing right now-
I've got to come back into consciousness in order to talk to you -is
I'm not really thinking per se, but I'm evolving into this higher
state of consciousness. And Sasha and I are divine, sacred, twin
souls but I know the way. He's taken me there endless, numerous
times. So here I'm experiencing pure pleasure. It's a state of total
bliss, like a continuous orgasmic state where one orgasm blends into
another, and I become one with my beloved Sasha. I recognize that we
are eternal beings, that we've always been together and always will
be. And then I become one with my animal friends, and nature, the
island of Maui, the earth, the solar system, out to the cosmos and
eventually I feel my oneness with Source, that divine, infinite space
of love and light, and I'm simultaneously feeling my oneness with
Sasha here in the physical plane. So I've transcended and I've
brought Heaven to earth. And he comes into his oneness with me, and
he feels it just as if it's happening to him.

Sasha Lessin: Oh, you bet, baby. I'm taking my mouth off of her
clitoris for a minute to ask a question. I would like to enter your
sacred cave with my right ring finger. Would you like that, honey?

Janet Lessin: Oh, yes, lover. Please take me even higher.

Sasha Lessin: Okay, so I lick my finger so it's quite moist, and I
place the tip of my fingerpad just inside the vaginal opening. Now
pull my finger in, honey.

Janet Lessin: Okay.

Sasha Lessin: I feel the muscles pulsing on my finger. Now I'm going
to curl my fingerpad inside your yoni towards your navel and back
towards your inner leg so it rests gently on your G-spot area, just
behind the pubic bone. Let's breathe together. I'm going to keep my
hand still, and I want you to just to imagine that my finger reaches
inside all the way to your heart. Okay, now I'm going to start
a "c'mere" motion with my finger, taking the pad from the cervix to
the orifice. Slowly, back and forth. From the top of your cave to the
cervix, to the cave's opening. And all the while, I'm going to keep
kissing your pearl and lapping your labia, releasing lots of saliva.
This would go on for some time. Then I start turning my wrist from
side to side, and I trace a crescent over Janet's G-spot. Then, very
soft and light at first, I sweep, turning my wrist from up to down,
from the left half of your cave. Slowly I skim the front of my right
finger from the cave roof to its floor and the outside door, and then
I'm going to have to take my right ring finger and put my left finger
inside. Tben I can get the whole other side of your yoni roof.

Janet Lessin: Yeah. Well, after a few minutes, Sasha changes his
position, so he eases his back and neck, and he rubs and taps and
touches all over inside my vagina. He strokes different levels,
different depths, finding the pressure. He alters his speed, and he
goes in and out, and traces the throbbing veins and the arteries, and
presses gently all the way to the bone in each part of my sacred cave.

Sasha Lessin: Sweetheart, would you like me to pet you with two
fingers inside?

Janet Lessin: Yes, please.

Sasha Lessin: Okay, so now I move my fingers from the cervix- I get
right between my two fingers toward the orifice, and I have in my
fingers- I can feel through the intervening flesh, I can feel the
inner clitoris, and also the urethral sponge. I can feel the sponge,
which surrounds the urethra and goes from the urinary bladder to the
urinary viatus where the urine comes out. The tissue gets rough. You
can feel it descending, it's about the size of a little finger now.
It's getting quite stimulated. The area just behind the pubic bone is
swelling. This is the so-called G-spot area. That's it, that's it. Do
I got it?

Janet Lessin: Yes, you have the right spot, sweetheart. If you keep
going like that, in short order I can ejaculate.

Sasha Lessin: Great! Push your uterus out like you're delivering a
baby. Push out, honey.

Janet Lessin: Thank you, sweetheart.

Sasha Lessin: Wow, that's great, honey! Wow! Oh, Janet's ejaculating,
squirting ounces of anrida. Divine nectar! Now's where I say your
affirmations, honey. You're beautiful! Forever young! I love you
forever! You're coming into your power!

Janet Lessin: I love you, sweetheart.

Sasha Lessin: This is so beautiful, sweetheart.

Janet Lessin: Thank you.

Sasha Lessin: Now let me just hold you a bit. Let me come up here.
I'm going to keep my hand in your yoni, the palm of my hand across
your mons. I love you so much.

Janet Lessin: I love you so much. So, in a normal Tantric day, we
would just keep continuing.

Sasha Lessin: The easiest time to have an orgasm is-

Janet Lessin: Right after you have an orgasm.

Sasha Lessin: What is important when a woman has an ejaculatory
orgasm is not to demand intercourse. If she wants to have intercourse
next you can, but what's really nice is to just, if you're the giver,
to just be there quietly and just see what she wants to say if that's
the entire experience. Because usually when a person has an orgasm
like this, it has clitoral and vaginal, as well as a urinal
ejaculatory aspects, and it's so overwhelming that silence and
meditation is just perfect because you feel at one with your mate and
you feel at one with the universe.

Janet Lessin: It's a very blissful state, but it's also very
vulnerable. So it's important for the giver to be sensitive about his
own needs and not push an agenda. Just be there for his beloved so
that she can reconnect and find all the pieces of her soul and
reconnect with the tissues of her body. And that sometimes takes a
long time, especially if someone had a history of abuse of any kind.

Sasha: Yeah. In a more advanced Tantra, I would put some lubricant on
fingers of my other hand and slowly work those fingers into the base
chakra. Then I would move the fingers in different insane patterns
than the fingers I have in the yoni, my tongue on the clitoris, so
that I have many, many different stimulations going at the same time.
I would tap a little finger against the very tip of her lowest
vertebrae so that the kundolini, the energy from the tip of the
spine, starts to move up. I'm looking in her eyes, and saying
beautiful things. So we have all these things going at once, and then
I may take my other hand, my left hand, out of the base chakra, push
through the top, right underneath the navel, through the outside of
her skin. That's called "uniting the fingers," with my fingers inside
and the fingers outside of her belly go in different directions. I
move the entire clitoris, which is quite a large organ. You only see
the very teeny eighth of an inch or so of the clitoral tip, but
actually the clitoris goes back about an inch and a half into the
body, and then bifurcates, goes down each leg, so that this rubbing
that I did in the beginning of the grasillus muscle, which is one of
the ductor muscles of the leg. This massage of that grasillus was
also massaging the tip of the clitoris, which is a really large
organ. You don't know it, but you can sure feel it inside.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow. Well, that is...I just can't thank you enough
for sharing so...I know it's just a re-enactment, but still powerful
and intimate and very inspirational.

Janet Lessin: Thank you for inviting us to share.

Sasha Lessin: We love sharing. We should do it on TV for you sometime.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Well, you know, I wanted to say, I checked out your
website, and we'll give the link again in just a minute. But you have
some beautiful pictures on your website, including how to sit for the
lesson that we talked about in the first segment of the show. And you
have the gorgeous pictures that go along with the beautiful chakras,
and your website is a trip. I absolutely think everybody who listens
to the show should go to www.schooloftantra.com and just spend a day
there or, you know, an hour there, and just tool around and have some
fun with you guys. 'Cause there's just more there than you can
imagine. Anyway, we're going to have to take another break, just for
our sponsors. This is Dr. Patti Taylor, and I'm with Sasha and Janet
Lessin, and we will be right back. And as I said, you can learn more,
and definitely we'll have a great time learning more about Sasha and
Janet. They do so many things. They teach, they have residential
stuff, they write books. Schooloftantra dot com. You can also visit
our episode page and we'll put up some links for them and their new
book All Chakra Tantra.

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Dr. Patti Taylor: We're back, and we are talking about sharing the
bliss of All Chakra Lovemaking with a partner. So, before the break,
we were talking about- I don't know if "talking about" is the right
word. We were in the throes of the most exquisite, intimate sharing
imaginable of your experiencing this gorgeous female ejaculatory
orgasm, and I think I'm still almost speechless with the beauty of it
all. I really want to thank you for an incredible gift that you've
given me and my listeners. Our listeners.

Janet Lessin: Our pleasure.

Dr. Patti Taylor: So, just to kind of close down the show a little,
here, I just want to just talk a little bit about what you do with
the people that go all the way to Maui or people that live in Maui.
But, you know, how you empower people. Who are you? Let's find out a
little about you.

Sasha Lessin: One of the most important things that we do is while
we're doing- instead of just going into merely the pleasure part,
which we've done, we take the time to slowly explore every centimeter
of the inside of the yoni and map where it feels good at different
levels of pressure and where there's a numbness or lack of feeling.
Wherever there's numbness or lack of feeling, I say free associate,
and that's when people start to re-live unfinished emotional things.
They're creating blocks to their ejaculatory orgasms and they will
actually start to re-live things that they've forgotten. And I have
them express more than they expressed in the original situation and
then have an imaginary scenario where they act it out so they get
another program that allows them to feel everywhere. And then I move
my finger back to where it felt good in the yoni and then back to
where it felt numb until that feels good, too, until by stimulus
generalization the entire yoni is like a G-spot and the person
doesn't have any blocks to full emotional and sexual feeling.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Okay, so one thing you do for sure is you help
people wake up their potential for full-on orgasmic expression.

Janet Lessin: Right, if they have any emotional or psychological
issues or trauma it'll block their chakras and they won't be able to
experience their sexuality to its fullest potential. So we do a lot
of cowpering, we do a lot of communications, we help couples grow
closer to each other, we help singles learn how to attract and learn
how to keep their beloved. We use a lot of different
psychotechnologies, and communication techniques, like non-body
communication, voice dialogue, gestalt therapy, existential and past-
life and childhood re-scripting therapies. These are all part of our
Tantra school. People can come and learn how to be Tantric cowpers
and therapists and teachers on all different levels. Some people like
to give workshops and conferences. Some like to do therapy,
individually or couples or in small groups. So Sasha Lessin has been
a therapist, cowper for about forty years. He's just one of the best
on the planet and I'm so blessed to be married to him.

Dr. Patti Taylor: You have stuff going on all the time and it's such
a wide variety of things. Even to get to be around you is just a
cornucopia, an abundance of knowledge pouring out of the two of you.
Do you have any examples of somebody that you've helped recently, and
what happened?

Sasha Lessin: Let's just tell you the story of Janet and how this
worked for her.

Janet Lessin: Oh...well, I wasn't prepared for that. I was very luded
in my childhood. There was a lot of rape and incest issues, so I was
kind of on the way out, I was dying and I'd been to all these
different therapists, and when I met Dr. Lessin we started doing the
yoni work and the- I had what was called "mecunhe," I had a blocked
issue about an incest-rape issue. And once that came forth, it
reversed my physical ails, and once that happened for me I devoted my
life to learning this so I could help other people. So as a
consequence we give people all the time to have these issues, they're
not sure what's going on with them sexually, they don't know why
they're depressed or they're having reactions to where they're
stifling their creativity. They get into incredible negative bonding
patterns with each other. Go ahead, honey. What did you want to say?

Sasha Lessin: It's just so gratifying to realize that you're not
stuck, that you can re-program anything to allow yourself all the
pleasures that life has to hold. And the interesting thing about
ejaculatory orgasms is that since it comes from the urinary bladder,
even people that have had hysterectomies can have incredibly intense
ejaculatory orgasms.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That sounds so amazing. And you combine it with a
trip to Hawaii on top of that, right?

Janet Lessin: Yes, so you want Tantra to become a lifestyle that
affects all avenues of your life. It'll help you in your job, and
transcend over to all your relationships. Your family, friends.

Sasha Lessin: We really think that making love is the alternative to
violence. The evidence is overwhelming that if you don't abuse or hit
your children, and if you allow good sex among people without a lot
of restrictions, then people do not engage in violent crime or war.
So make love, not war. And we teach you how to really make love well.

Dr. Patti Taylor: That's really beautiful. Well, we're almost out of
time, so I just have time for one final question each. So, if you
could leave our listeners today with one final thought, what will it
be? And you can decide who goes first.

Sasha Lessin: Go first, darling.

Janet Lessin: Be true to yourself. In Tantra we encourage authentic
communication. Learn how to speak close to the truth and sometimes
you may have consequences but at least you'll set yourself free. Free
to be who you really are.

Sasha Lessin: Listen to each other. When your lover is emotional,
don't just shut it off, but encourage it. Let their feelings out.
Empathize with those feelings. Find out what they need, and then ask
what you can do to help meet those needs.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Wow. Thank you so much. That's very, very
beautiful, heartfelt advice, but why am I not surprised? I just
deeply want to thank you for revealing of yourselves and essentially
modeling for me and for all of us the beautiful stuff you had to
share today. I want to remind everyone that we will have links up on
our episode page to a handout that you can actually download so that
you can have the bija mantras and take them home and practice them
with your lover, because it sounds like that would be a great way to
kick off any fabulous lovemaking session. And I also want to say that
these beautiful mantras seem to be at the bottom of pretty much every
page of your website as well. So you will be able to go to our
episodes page for this show and get a handout, as well as finding out
about their book, All Chakra Tantra and How to Love a Woman.

Sasha Lessin: And also for those people that have alternate
relationships, that is something we really love to do. You don't have
to be conventional. You get to choose for yourself who make love with
and how.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Right. So you are very, very diverse in your
talents. Thank you once again for coming on the show. I had a
phenomenal time and experience today.

Janet Lessin: Thank you for having us.

[All exchange goodbyes.]

Dr. Patti Taylor: So this brings us to the end of our show. Thank
you, listeners, for listening and joining in. Please send me email at
patti@personallifemedia.com. For text and transcripts of this show
and other shows, please visit our website at personallifemedia.com.
And come post a blog comment at our blog page, too. So, if you
haven't already, please be sure to subscribe to the Expanded
Lovemaking show, so that you can get automatic updates as soon as
they become available. And please visit me, Dr. Patti Taylor, at
expandedlovemaking.com, where you can join my mailing list and find
out more about my products, services, and events. So this is your
host, Dr. Patti Taylor, and that's all for now. And I remain yours in
ever expanding lovemaking. And I'll see you next week.

Patti's wonderful site:
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-
lovemaking/episodes/3493-sharing-bliss-chakra-lovemaking-dr-sasha

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Co-Ed spas and adult hang outs...........

LeDuge — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 17:36:54 GMT

Most of us know of all the swing parties and resorts, but does anyone know about co-ed clothing optional spas?

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Paid for Sex

dsoul — Sat, 15 Sep 2007 15:14:44 GMT

I'm not using this post to call anybody anything. I know everyone in here as very decent people with respectable lives, so please don't feel insulted by this post. I just want to know, if you've ever been in a situation before where someone offered you money or some form of gift after/before having sex with him/her?

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showering togather

Bernard — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 23:50:18 GMT

Hi I really enjoy showering with my partner either before sex or afterwards, I mean just the water washing each other,washing hair,and maybe a little soapy backrub...sometimes it leads to sex in the shower sometimes not....sometimes after sex and a bit of cuddling we make it slowly make it to the shower if we don't pass out from exhaustion....how do others feel about this.....do you enjoy it....

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REAL FRIENDS. REAL BENEFITS - MY FUCKBUDDIES

Thu, 03 Jan 2008 03:50:01 GMT

I’m now 29 and often, when asked, can’t remember how many homes we have lived in over our 10 years of marriage. And we’re to be transferred again in three weeks, something that my husband’s business requires every six months to two years.

My husband has been a dedicated cuckold for a little more than two years. It took me awhile to understand him but he’d wanted this even before we married.

At his urging, I agreed to accompany him on visits to a video-viewing booth area of a local adult book and video store for two years. Over that time, many guys either joined us in our booth or poked their dicks through drilled holes between booths. I (usually) didn’t fuck them but enjoyed jerking’em off.

Unfortunately for both of us, my husband was required to regularly take a medication causing him to become mostly impotent. So, although he hadn’t mentioned his fantasy of another guy fucking me in more than a year, I had therefore found reason to renew the issue. It finally began to make sense to me.

I began dating an 18-year-old I met in a night class. After just one semester, he went away to another school so I began dating yet another fuckbuddy.

And during that time I met three women friends who enjoyed going out to places like rave clubs and male strip-bars. I didn’t care for raves but enjoyed watching my friends jerk off male dancers. Heck, I did it myself.

I occasionally returned home as late as 3 a.m. Sometimes my husband achieved an erection upon my retelling of these stories.

He won’t openly admit that he enjoys my experiences but it’s clear he does and loves being my cuckyboy. Truth be told, much of what I do is also for his pleasure.

So the third weekend before we were to be transferred yet again, two of those friends arranged a special “going-away night out” for me.

Janet at age 32 is the oldest of our little group and the only one who smokes. At 5’6” she was about 15 pounds overweight when we first met. She then began losing weight until she was now likely a few pounds underweight. Somehow this thinness, along with her no-nonsense demeanor and uncommonly self-confident deportment, her dark hair and blue eyes added a mysterious façade that attracted substantive attention from men everywhere we went.

Janet had something of a wild childhood. She told us that, following an even wilder middle school past, she fell into a particularly mischievous crowd in high school. By then, she was smoking dope and attending illegal street races. Often she served at the racers’ flag-girl. She graduated with decent grades. I can’t understand how.

But earlier in middle school, she was instrumental in forming a sex club that grew to 14 kids. They gathered at different homes every couple of weeks. After almost a year of this behavior, a neighboring couple complained of stereo noise at one of their member’s home. The cops arrived to discover a dozen naked and partially naked kids engaged in sex acts.

The school board transferred each kid to different schools and forbade any to socialize with another for the next two years. Their official edict wasn’t entirely successful but it broke up their frequent parties. And, of course, things remained a bit tense between the parents and their kids for a year or more.

Janet never ratted on her two-year older brother who was the club’s only older member. He hadn’t attended that evening. Although each saw the other having sex with others, she didn’t ever enjoy intercourse with her brother.

Marta, the most outgoing of our bunch, had another commitment that prevented her from attending that night. So that left just Evelyn and Janet to plan this special evening in my honor.

Evelyn, at age 24, unlike the divorced Janet, is married. She and her husband are swingers and nudists. Evelyn had invited Janet, my husband and me to join them at swap parties. But my husband explained he couldn’t get it up sufficiently for a party like that and begged off. Janet was satisfied with a string of boyfriends and also declined.

Evelyn is a svelte redhead with freckles and often is mistaken for a very young girl. Part of this age-identity confusion lies with her tendency to wear low-rider jeans and tight pullovers you’d expect on a adolescent student, far different from Janet and me who dress conservatively. I do that because I want to appear at least my age but sometimes it doesn’t work.

Janet’s two-year-older brother long had been eternally thankful he hadn’t attended that night those middle school fuckers was busted. Although Janet and I never went to the nudist camp with Evelyn and her husband, Janet told her brother about their offer and he frequently attended at the couple’s guest.

Most naturist parks bar single men but allow single women as members. The clubs prefer families to singles. Janet and I assumed her brother was probably one of their swinging partners as well but neither of us had asked.

A few months ago at the male strip club, Evelyn – as each of us often had done - was stroking a dancer’s long, lathered-up dick. Janet noticed a man nervously talking with the bartender and pointing toward us.

When Evelyn went to the bar a few minutes later for another drink, the bartender told her that the man had been concerned while observing her jerking off the dancer and he had assumed she was underage. The barkeep explained to him that he’d heard that complaint before and he personally knew Evelyn as an adult regular.

And minutes later that 42-year-old guy walked over to our table and asked Janet for a date. We guessed he was fascinated with this apparent “kid.”

Evelyn told him she and her husband were swingers and asked whether he was interested in threesomes. He enthusiastically agreed. Evelyn took his name and phone number. He has since swung with them several times.

Jan’s initial meeting with the man caused several pseudo-psychological analyses between the four of us. We guessed that his attraction to the young-looking Evelyn implied a pedophile personality.

Yet that night in the bar, he had been the only customer to protest when he thought she was too young to be there. We concluded that he probably denied his sexual preference and had displayed at that time an excessive fear of a 14-year-old holding an adult’s dick.

BACK TO THE PRESENT:

So now, Evelyn and Janet showed up at our door to pick me up for this unexplained “special” night out. My husband was intrigued and asked if he could go.

Janet said, “Absolutely not, Cuckyboy. We’ll give her something to tell you later.” She said this while drawing a line down his cock beneath his slacks.

Janet blindfolded me and drove us to Evelyn’s home. I asked if I looked like the Green Hornet, an old masked comic book character she displays on a poster above her bed back at her apartment. Janet replied, “More like the Green Horny.”

We arrived five minutes later and they hadn’t allowed me to remove the blindfold.

From their whispering, I recognized that it was Evelyn’s husband and the guy she had met at the strip club who greeted us at the door. I suspected now what they had planned. Evelyn’s husband had made no secret that he wanted to fuck Janet and me. I didn’t then realize that a third man was in the room.

I was about to remove my blindfold but Janet grasped my hands and said, “Oh no, not for awhile yet.” So I laughed and said, “Okay, I’ll play along.”

Amid giggles, I heard zippers and clothing falling away. Then someone gripped my wrists, raising my arms high as others undressed me.

The bar guy’s voice said, “Okay, now all women are to be blindfolded.” And moments later, it was done. Someone had turned on a stereo with soft music.

Evelyn’s husband announced, “We’re going to dance first. Throughout the night, each of the women will try and determine who the man they’re with might be. We’ll give points for correct the guesses and the winner receives a prize at the end of the evening.”

The third man added, “And since this party is in (my) honor, we wish her luck.” Everyone laughed, including me. Why was that funny? I don’t know. I guess you had to be there.

I said, “How can I guess if I don’t know who all of you are?”

They each introduced themselves. The third man said in his Philly accent, “And I’m Tony.” He’s Janet’s brother, so I assumed I was right guessing that he was among Evelyn’s threesomes. A fuckbuddy.

The problem with this game was that it was too easy. Evelyn’s husband is a big guy with thick hair. The older man we had met at the bar has a high forehead and thinning hair and was about 5’9”, three inches shorter than El’s hubby, and is much leaner. Jan’s bro has light reddish-blond hair that feels, well, fluffy. He’s slender also but about my height, 5’11”, with long limbs.

El’s husband was the first to dance with me. Our naked bodies pressed together through the last half of a song that had begun before the dancing began. His semi-erect penis curled to the side against my hip. Evelyn was dancing with the guy from the bar and Jan found herself pressed naked against her brother.

Partners changed as the song ended. Jan’s brother danced with me. I didn’t need to remove my broad blindfold to realize that he sported a horse-sized woody.

His cock had swollen while dancing with his sis and stood straight out. He rotated his hips until his rigid penis pressed all the way through the part between my legs. The upper part of his long shaft thrust aloft, tightly against my groin. His cock’s large head protruded so far out the back of my legs that I felt his broad dickhead pulsating against my buttocks.

His hips rotated against mine, causing the upper portion of his cock to hotly massage my clitoris. Soon I gasped for breath as he kissed me full on the lips. My hands gripped his buttocks. My hips rolled against his, masturbating my clit on his dick until I was about to explode.

But the song ended and I then was dancing with Evelyn’s husband. His stiff prick curled up toward his belly and throbbed against my stomach. With slow fucking motions he pressed his dick up and down in the narrow space between our tummies.

All women were moaning. One man groaned. Evelyn voice tremored as she said, “I can’t wait any longer! Somebody fuck me!”

“That’s the next part of the game,” her husband said. “Keep your blindfolds on.” They led us three women to the living room’s liquor bar and urged us forward, bracing our hands against its edge, our legs spread invitingly.

He went on, “This won’t be as easy to guess. A penis will enter your pussies from behind. If any woman attempts to feel the body behind her while being fucked, she will be disqualified.” None of us had group sex together before and I was certain someone would object. But I didn’t intend to protest.

Janet’s brother removed our blindfolds. Ev’s husband said behind us, “Although the blindfolds are off, you’re not allowed to turn around. Only one woman will be fucked at a time. The other two women will try to help that woman cum. Each man will attempt not to ejaculate before all women are fucked. We don’t need a guy with a used-up softie.”

Someone turned off the overhead lighting and dimmed the room’s only table lamp. The lamp’s bulb was red, casting a rosy glow about the room.

Each woman now was in a high state of excitation with no resistance left to protest anything. Our bodies shivered as each of us glanced to the other. Tears streaked Evelyn’s cheeks. Janet’s lips quivered. My teeth chattered and my cunt steamed with lust.

Jan’s brother leaned across the bar and smiled at me, saying, “Because the party is in your honor, you’re first.”

My voice squeaked a weak “Okayyy…” A dickhead parted the mouth of my eager pussy. My hips rotated wantonly as it slithered into my lubricated depth. I was ooo-ing and begging him to fuck me hard. Whoever the guy was behind me trembled as much. His hot breath steamed onto my bare back.

Janet’s hands stroked my breasts as she leaned to the side, watching the cock pound into me. Evelyn’s fingers crept to my clitoris and twirled in unison with the man’s fucking. Janet leaned to nurse a nipple.

I forgot about trying to guess who my fuckbuddy might be. Evelyn’s slippery fingers were about to bring me to orgasm.

He withdrew against my protest but another cock replaced his. This guy gripped my hips as he rammed into me. I realized it was Jan’s bro. He had the longest dick I’d known. If his prick had a normal width rather than it’s slender length, he’d have split me apart. That big cockhead though caused me to squeal in surprise as it rammed through my tender vagina.

I pleaded, “Please don’t take this one out,” but he withdrew, replaced by the third. I couldn’t tell whether this was Bar Guy or Evelyn’s spouse. All were good.

Now my orgasm roared over me like a freight train. I bawled and exploded, as I screeched, “It’s so fuckin’ fine! I’m a’wash in dicks!”

I released my grip on the bar and hugged Janet and Evelyn against me. Evelyn’s hand cupped my mound and Janet madly nursed my breast as my climax crested and ebbed.

Evelyn was next to sample their cocks. With Janet’s help, I assisted Evelyn as well as they had served me.

Then, at Janet’s turn, she gritted her chattering teeth while bracing her fists against the bar. Her eyes rolled to the ceiling. As if it had just occurred to her, she said, “I assume only two of you guys will be doing me. I mean, one of you is … my brother!”

No one answered. The silence, it seemed, was telling. I gulped and looked down at her brother’s anxiously long cock.

Evelyn and I stroked her shuddering body through the first two men who mercilessly pounded into her helpless cunt.

But Janet hadn’t climaxed and bawled, “Doesn’t seem fair! I’m so fucking hot!” The bar guy said, “You’re right. But it’s not over, Baby.” He tugged her brother’s arm and led him to his sister’s buttocks until his cockhead bobbed against her shuddering anus.

Evelyn and I were stunned. Unwanted incest seemed so over the top. I was speechless, frozen in place. But Evelyn raised her eyes questioningly at the guys, giving no hint to Janet as to her next invader would be.

Bar Guy turned off the lights, plunging the room into total darkness.

Janet squealed, “Ohhh my gosh!” as the hot dick entered her pussy, then withdrew completely. Evelyn’s husband gripped Jan’s shoulders, turning her around to face her fucker.

But in this darkness she couldn’t determine the identity of that man she now faced. He urged her back to the carpeted floor. She said, “Oh, honey, I am so hot! Do me.” We didn’t know whether she suspected it was her brother.

As our eyes adjusted to the dimness we could make out only two naked forms, intertwined and writhing before us.

The invader parted her thighs and kneeled between her legs. His dickhead divided her churning cunt. She returned each thrust, rocking rhythmically.

The man raised his head, his body stiffened. He groaned, about to cum. Jan moaned feebly and pleaded, “Cum with me. Fuck me. Fill me up with your hot juice!”

His body stiffened. Janet screamed, “I’m a’cummin! Oh my gosh!” A Philly-like accent groaned, “So am I. I’m cumming in your hot cunt!”

And then, all of us, including the powerless Janet, immediately recognized that voice! Her brother’s voice.

Oh Honey, that moment was so fucking hot! We women and the other two men were masturbating whoever was nearest, each hoping we’d cum again.

I didn’t then know, and don’t know now, whether the hand on my hot cunt was that of a woman or man. I’m really not bi, but I didn’t care. I was coming again.

Janet’s body rippled in multiple orgasms. Then someone turned on the lights.

It wasn’t her brother who had fucked her. It was Bar Guy.

Her brother had leaned against Bar Guy’s face at their moment of orgasm and said those words I’ll never forget, “So am I. I’m cumming in your hot cunt!”

He kneeled beside his sis and pecked her on the cheek as if apologizing for that moment’s unforgivable shock.

Jan wasn’t buying it. Her eyes squinted furiously and she punched him hard on his shoulder. He reeled back, laughing at his successful ruse.

The rest of us were rolling on the floor in laughter. Janet smirked at her bro. Never say Jan can’t take a joke.

Evelyn and her husband drove me home that night. To my wonderment, Janet drove her brother home. To her condo! Not his apartment. Hmmm.

Everyone had forgotten about that “prize” to be awarded for the most correct guesses. I’m not sure who won anyway.

My husband and I are moving next week to our new home, out of state. Give me a few days to get back online, okay?

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First Meeting

QUERIDA — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 12:36:07 GMT

The wait seemed like forever, but the night of our first meeting finally came. You and Jon arrived first.

Each of you takes turns glancing at the time every few minutes and wondering if I’ll really show up. The anticipation you both felt when you left the house for our planned first meeting is slowly turning into doubt and disappointment.

Then, I walk into the restaurant, a bit disheveled and more than nervous myself. The maitre d’ escorts me to your table. You look up from your drink and are the first to see me.

Our eyes lock on contact and we exchange smiles. As beautiful as the pictures you posted were, they pale in comparison to the way you look as we greet each other with a kiss and hug. Jon stands to welcome me but my own eyes are still focused on you. I apologize for my lateness with an I-told-you-so about my poor sense of direction as he invites me to join you.

The two of us are seated and with your husband sitting between us. We are dressed in our sexy best and, of course, as arranged, neither of us is wearing any panties.

Jon orders a drink for me and the first few minutes are spent on polite small talk -- the traffic, our jobs, the weather, that sort of thing. I’m talking to the both of you but you can’t help but notice that my eyes remain fixed on you.

It takes surprisingly little time for all three of us to feel comfortable and at ease with one another. Laughter replaces the periods of awkward silence that marked those first few minutes.

Soon, we are both flirting with Jon but we're flirting with one another even more. Some of the other patrons are staring... but it's only because they're envious... and it's a real turn on. Others are pretending to not look but we catch their secret peeks. And all are dying to see what will happen next.

At one point, you and I lean across your husband and join hands, then kiss one another softly.

Mmmmmm.

Jon says something funny and we both giggle. The he puts an arm around each of us and squeezes us to him.

Almost at the same time, you and I lower a hand beneath the table and begin gently rubbing Jon's thigh. He is embarrassed at first, his face turns a bit red, but then other reactions quickly take over and he‘s feeling kind of special. Pretty soon, there more hands are under the table than on top of it.

The music plays at one point and I urge the two of you to get up to dance. Neither of you wants to leave me alone at the table, especially Jon. He’s got a tremendous erection and, like a kid in high school, is trying desperately to hide it.

But I prevail.

The two of you dance. At one point, you break away from Jon, whose erection is only a bit less prominent by this time, and return to the table to get me.

Taking my hand, you lead me back to the dance floor where Jon puts an arm on the small of my back and presses me toward him. I could feel his cock pressed against me… and it felt good.

Back at the table moments later, dinner is served. You and I playfully take turns offering a fork to Jon’s mouth. As soon as he opens wide to accept it, we teasingly pull it away and tell him he must be a good boy if he expects any dessert.

The interplay continues, only now it’s you and me who are teasing one another. We take turns rolling and flicking our tongues and there’s no mistake about its significance. The other diners notice it too.

The three of us are soon immersed in “naughty” conversation. Jon removes a digital camera from his coat pocket, aims it at the two of us, and clicks. He does this a few more times, and pretty soon you and I find ourselves playfully posing, holding hands, hugging, kissing, that sort of thing. He makes a joke about later on and all three of us erupt into laughter.

The other diners were well aware of our naughty antics beneath the table but our hands are above the table now and in plain view... and it’s almost impossible for them to pretend they aren’t watching us.

You crack a joke about being stuck to the chair and we again erupt into laughter. The truth of it was, both you and I were indeed “stuck” to our seats.

There is a warmth beyond the effects of the drinks. We all feel it. And there is an undeniable wetness as well. This was just supposed to be a first, “meet-and-greet”, “get-to-know-one-another” meeting… but it’s already obvious that the evening will turn out to be much more than that.

Jon reserved a room for us. It came as no surprise. We all knew it would happen. It’s what we dreamed of since our first e-mails.

He sensed we wanted some private time together and, secure in his own masculinity, gave us the room for a while.

A combination of good wine and good conversation had done its work. The moment had come.

Now alone, you and I stood face to face. Our eyes locked on contact. Our hearts thrummed with anticipation. Our bodies shivered with a hot and cold delight neither of us had known before.

We held hands and exchanged wordless smiles. The nervousness we felt earlier had long since been replaced by an excited calm.

We drew nearer. You swept away an errant tendril from my face, then gently stroked my cheek. How soft your hand felt. How pricelessly soft. I caught it in my own and kissed it.

With a forefinger, I lightly traced the outline of your lips, pausing only to accept the kiss you planted on my fingertip. You closed your eyes and in that instant I cupped your face and kissed you.

Mmmmmmm. So nice.

My tongue swirled against yours. And the feeling was electric. You returned the kiss and embraced me. Our bodies pressed together as if one, and I felt the heat of your body as you felt the heat of mine.

You seemed to know what I wanted and turned around so I could unzip the back of your dress. It opened all the way down, just above the tan line of your butt cheeks. How sexy it was.

I slipped my hands inside the dress and encircled you for a moment. How warm your body was to my touch.

MMMmmmmmm.

Still, not a word passed between us.

I hooked my thumbs beneath the spaghetti straps of your silk chiffon and, one at a time, slid them off your shoulders. Your breasts, so wonderfully full, freed from their lycra cocoon, welcomed my caress. How beautiful they were. How perfect. And how perfect your nipples which stood at attention when I squeezed them playfully between my fingers.

With a tug, your dress tumbled to the carpet and, like a blossom, gathered in folds at your feet. You stepped out of it and, with a good-riddance kick that made us both laugh, sent it hurling into an unlit corner of the room.

Naked except for your heels, you gazed expectantly into my eyes. And I beheld your beauty. All of it.

It was as though it was my first time as well. A shudder raced down my spine. A wonderful warmth and wetness radiated from between my legs.

I spun around in slow motion, kind of like a pirouette. And soon felt the force of your fingers unfastening my dress. Like you, I’d worn no bra. And, like you, my nipples came erect at once and my breasts beckoned your touch.

Mmmmmm. How excited it made me.

The both of us nude, we were like kids at the moment of self-discovery. I cast a loving eye on your loveliness, touching you, exploring you, and memorizing your body. You allowed my hand to travel the length of your body and come to rest on the sweet curve of your buttocks.

Mmmmm. How soft it was.

I couldn’t resist the temptation to toyfully spank you. A few innocent pats and you giggled like a naughty school girl. And I grew more adventurous.

You seemed startled at first and gasped for air, but didn’t mind it when my finger slid along the valley between your cheeks.

Mmmmmm. How deliciously inviting it was.

I took your hand and placed it on the curve of my hip, I saw you smile and felt you relax. You caressed me all over and I loved it.

We stood there, lost in the breathless moment and at the same time, excited by it.

I suggested we bathe together and you nodded your approval. We even joked about those schoolgirl poses Jon took of you and wondered if we should call him to take some of the two of us. Not now, we decided. Now was just for us.

Moments later, I sat behind you in a sudsy tub of scented water, my legs on either side of yours. You fell back against me, pressed into my awaiting breasts, and I slipped my arms around you. My outstretched tongue painted wet brush strokes on your ear lobe and then the soft underside of your neck.

MMMmmmmm.

With slow, circling motions I passed the sponge over your magnificent breasts, gingerly flicking at your nipples with my fingertips. I lowered my hands and lingered on the flat plateau of your tummy, then leaned my cheek against yours and reached lower still.

You squirmed a bit but allowed me entrance. How soft, how wet, how delightfully responsive you were.

Mmmmmm.

Time seemed timeless. How gloriously erotic it was. How precious the feel of you.

I helped you out of the bath and patted you dry with a fluffy white terry. And then you did the same to me.

The hotel provided complimentary robes but we didn’t need them. We waited too long for this moment and would not be denied.

Naked, we exited the bathroom and, with arms around each other, crossed into the bedroom. I eased you onto the bed and lay you on your tummy. Your head rested on your folded arms as I retrieved the perfumed oils from the travel bag I brought.

I joined you on the bed and sat astride you. Dripping a portion of the oil on your back, I massaged it into your skin. How soft your body felt under my touch.

MMMmmm. How soft it was. How silky.

A few moments later I dismounted and focused my attention on the rest of your body. Your feet. Your legs. Your thighs. Your butt…. Especially your butt.

Mmmmmm.

Without waiting for my signal, you flipped over and offered yourself to me. Mmmmmm. Your whole body glistened with the oil… so slippery… so seductively slippery.

I began at your feet, kissing your toes with my tongue… then running my hands along the line of your legs… the tender inside of your thighs… and came to rest on that beautiful triangle. I pressed my face against it and drank you.

Mmmmmm. How delicious you tasted. How irresistibly delicious.

Your pulse quickened. So did my own. I knew I had to have you… and I knew you wanted it too.

You drew me to your breasts… those magnificent breasts, and I took as much of each as I could into my mouth… sometimes sucking on your nipples, sometimes biting them.

I felt the warmth of your hands, the command of your fingers, the wetness of your lips and tongue on me… all over me… touching me where I longed to be touched… caressing me … probing me into near oblivion… exploring me to the point of ecstasy...

Mmmmmmm… and I ached for more and more of you.

I arched myself into your body and felt you press against me. The feeling went beyond words. You welcomed and received me.

MMMmmmmm. How you welcomed and received me.

The hot magma of desire surged steadily to the surface. We both felt it. And we both wanted it.

Mmmmmmm. How we wanted it.

The pounding of our hearts beat as one and both were about to burst. We lost ourselves in one another, feeling nothing but the pent up feelings about to be realized.

The heat of our bodies seared the senses. Breasts against breasts. Nipples against nipples. Thighs against thighs. Clit against clit. Rubbing and rubbing. Writhing and writhing, Faster and faster. Hotter and hotter.

The eruption of pleasure could be sluiced no longer. It spewed forth like a volcano and we collapsed into a heavenly exhaustion.

But we knew this night of exploration had just begun. Jon had been patient long enough… and now it was time to welcome him properly.

All sense of inhibition vanished. We lay alone and loved each other. Like a couple on its honeymoon, we frolicked on the bed for another hour or so.

We didn’t know it, of course, but Jon had already come back to the room. He stepped into the shower to refresh himself, then wrapped one of the complimentary terry robes about him.

He stood silently at the bedroom entrance and watched us. A naughty smile crept across his face and he felt himself grow hard. Tiny beads of sweat mingled with the clusters of shower water sliding down his chest.

In a way, we sensed your husband’s presence before we actually saw him.
Then, we broke our embrace and smiled.

“Hi Baby,” you said with a charitable but naughty wink. “Why don’t you come join us?”

“Yes, Jon, join us,” I echoed with equal charity, then slid to one side of the bed. “There’s plenty of room.”

At that instant, you looked at your husband, smiled, and leaned forward to kiss me, swirling your tongue against mine.

Jon saw the chemistry between us at work. He knew his time would come... And he also knew to not rush it.

“It’s a tempting offer,” he laughed. “But if you ladies don’t mind, I’d like to sit and watch for a while.”

“That’s my husband,” you joked, “Isn’t he wonderful?”

I nodded a broad, wordless smile.

He politely declined our offer to slip between us. Instead, he ensconced himself in the chair nearest the bed.

“Please… don’t let me interrupt you. Just pretend I’m not here. Continue what you were doing.”

Neither of us really wanted him there but the sight of him being turned on as we watched us turned us on even more.

I “examined” your body.

“God, Jon, Amy is so beautiful… and so sexy. But you already know that, don’t you?”

His face fully flushed, the air conditioning failed to cool the heat that was surging through Jon’s body. A few more minutes of this and he knew he’d need another shower.

Jon crossed his legs as he sat. The white terry fell away at the folds and exposed the lower portion of his naked body. His erection, quite obvious, poked upward from the now tent-like robe. At first, he tried to cover himself, then quickly reconsidered.

God it was so big.

Neither you nor I needed much prompting and quickly resumed our playtime. Our bodies locked in an embrace that would not be broken. Our hands freely explored the other’s most sensitive places.

Fully aware of our special audience, we positioned ourselves to afford Jon the best view possible. And, judging from the sweat rivering down his forehead, he was most appreciative.

“It’s okay, Baby,” you said to him. “She’s pretty, isn’t she? You can stroke yourself if you want.”

“But not too much,” I said with manufactured humor. “You’ve got to save some of that for later.”

“For us,” you added. “For the two of us.”

Jon could not believe it was you who was talking that way. But he loved it. With that, he sneaked a hand beneath the terry. How wonderfully large his erection had grown.

“Oh, my, do you need a license to carry that thing around with you?” I kidded.

You broke in before he could reply. “And he knows how to use it too.”

“MMMmmmmmm,” I cooed.

“ I think he likes you, Laura,” you said with a smile as your hand cupped my breast. “I like you too.”

Minutes later, we climbed into a sixty-nine position. At first, I was on top with you beneath me. Then, we switched. God, Amy, how good it felt to hold you like that. How wonderfully sweet you tasted. I just couldn’t get enough of you.

It soon became clear, however, that Jon would not be content to just watch.

“Hey, Baby, why don’t you show Laura the new toy I bought you.”

“MMMmmmmm, toy time” I giggled. “I love to play with toys.”

You nodded agreement. With a gentle pat on your pretty bottom, I sent you off. You climbed off the bed, and crossed to the dresser.

My legs drawn up, I lay on my side, propping myself on an elbow. With the other hand, I gently caressed my breasts and tweaked my nipples.

The sway of your hips and the soft bounce of your butt cheeks caught my eye… and I had to touch myself again.

MMMmmmmm.

Poor Jon. His eyes flitted from you to me, to you, to me, and back again. He didn’t where to look first. The husband must have felt like he was a spectator at a tennis match.

But we knew where to look. We were fixed on one another.

I watched as you retrieved an assortment of plastic packages from your overnight bag. Dildoes, strap-ons, clitoral and anal stimulators, vibrators, butt plugs, anal beads, ticklers --- you must have bought every item the store offered. The collection cradled in your outstretched hands, you brought them over to Jon.

“Which one, Baby?” you asked.

Your husband’s busy hand came out from under the robe and, with an index finger, pointed. “How about this one?”

You placed the rest at the foot of the chair and raised the selected one toward me. “You like?”

It was a magnificent double-ended dildo. Its soft red jelly-vinyl measured almost 24 inches in length.

“MMMmmmmm,” I sighed. “I like. I like very much.”

You broke the plastic seal and freed it from its packaging. Jon reached down and handed you a small bottle of lube. You applied liberal amounts to the phallus, closing your hand around its gentle ripples and stroking it as Jon large hand resumed its own busy work beneath the robe.

Kissing Jon on the forehead, you placed your own hand over his and squeezed his erection before returning to the bed.

I sat eagerly upright as you slid beside me. You took one of the dildo and put it into your mouth. Jon and I looked on as your tongue painted its head with wet brush strokes. Then you handed it to me and I took the other end into my mouth. As I sucked on the opposite head, the corner of my eye was focused on him. The robe had all but come completely undone under the motion of his hand.

“Why don’t you just take it off, Jon,” I said. “We’re all friends here… and this is certainly no time to be shy.”

You chimed in. “Yeah, Baby, take it off. Let Laura see what you got.”

Jon stood up. He untied the already loose sash of the white terry and let the robe fall to the floor. That wonderfully large and deliciously erect specimen of his sprang into view.

It was immediately clear from the slight stubble around his cock and balls that he had recently shaved around that area.

“MMMmmmm. Nice,” I purred playfully. “Did you shave it just for me?”
“He likes that way,” you cut in. “I do too.” Then you turned your attention to him.

“Stroke it for her, Baby. Let her see how you stroke it.”

Jon approached the bed and took a corner of it. His focus, however, remained riveted on the dildo in my hand.

I gently lowered you onto your back, your head resting on the oversized pillow. You bent your knees and opened for me.

I offered the dildo to Jon. He placed his hand over mine and together we slipped it inside you. MMMmmmm. You moaned with the first gentle penetration but instantly wanted more… and, within seconds, your own hand overlapped ours and quickened the pace.

I straddled you, face to face, my legs open and interlocked with yours. Slowly, I slid myself forward. Jon, whose hand remained on the dildo, eased it inside me. And it was wonderful.

Your husband released his grip and fell off to the side, seeking out your breasts with his hands, his mouth, and his tongue. He slid the other beneath you and played with your butt.

Our bodies chose a cadence, as we pushed forward and withdrew, pushed forward and withdrew.

MMMmmm. God, Amy, it felt so good.

We fucked each other into oblivion. You turned you head toward Jon and accepted his engorged cock into your mouth as you accepted the dildo in your pussy.

You sucking brought him to the edge but you wouldn’t allow him to cum though. Not yet.

You whispered something to your husband and he immediately inched toward me. My own mouth found his throbbing cock and welcomed it. And all the time you and I kept fucking each other.

The pace grew to dizzying heights.

You removed the double-ended dildo and, on hands and knees, crept toward me. I opened myself for you and you buried you face into my flesh.

MMMmmmm. How wonderful you felt, Amy How wonderfully wonderful.
Jon changed position and mounted you from behind. Each thrust was answered by a unnamed moan of delight that was muffled in between my legs. He pumped you harder and harder, and you loved it… but it was my attention you wanted. God, how you wanted it.

Delicious moments later, we changed positions. You lay back and opened for me and my tongue found you. Mmmmmm. So good, Amy. So good.

Jon moved behind me and, with your juices still dripping from his cock, penetrated me. God, he was so deep inside me, hun.

Your husband, his magnificent cock swelled with the rush of blood, pounded and pounded me and I pretended it was you. I felt the rhythmic slap of his balls against my ass and I was close to cumming again.

Jon disengaged from me and returned to you. God, how he wanted you. He was crazed with desire for you. He kept thrusting and thrusting his cock into your pussy as you concentrated on mine.

Mmmmmm.

Our movements reached a fever pitch. The magma that boiled just beneath the surface was surging toward a wonderful eruption. We all knew it. We all felt it.

But now it was just the two of us. You and me. And Jon knew that too.
He had known it all long.

Faster and faster. Harder and harder. Deeper and deeper. The pleasure between us became so intense it was nearly unbearable. We had reached the point of no return, Our bodies lurched forward. Shivered. Stiffened. Spasmed.

And then the hot magma of our passion could no longer be sluiced. It erupted into a lava flow that spurted everywhere. Inside me. Inside you. On our legs and thighs and tummies. On our faces. On our hands. All over our bodies…

The two of us collapsed into a stupor of exhaustion. Our bodies became entangled. Our legs intertwined. My face nestled against your wet pussy. My fingers teased at your nipple as you pressed me close.

Within seconds, the two of us were fast asleep. The exquisite exhaustion of our bodies and smiles of satisfaction on our faces said it all.

The staccato knocking at the door shortly afterward roused us.

“Come on in, Keya,” I called out and slyly winked at the two of you.

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I Want to be Controlled

QUERIDA — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 14:02:14 GMT

“I want to be controlled. I need it,” she told me, then just as quickly added, “But I warn you, it won’t be easy. I’ll fight you.”

And she was right. The verbal sparring that followed spanned most of the day. The intellectual cut and thrust, lunge and parry. The rapier-like wit of one rivaling the ribald street-talk of the other. Will matched against will.

But the language of those caramel eyes revealed more perhaps than her manipulating words intended. If ever a body begged to be possessed, it was hers.

The smell of leather intoxicated her. She eyed the articles hung from hooks on my playroom wall and tried to suppress a smile. She knew that they, like her, would not be denied their destiny. Not this night.

Moments later, I moved up to her and took her lips to mine. Painted her with soft, tender kisses, wet with passion. My tongue probed her mouth, caressed her own swirling tongue, danced with it. My hands roamed a body that cried out for my touch.

I whispered in her ear: “I will learn every inch of your body, so that I will be able to close my eyes and see any or all of it any time I wish.”

“Yes, Querida,” she panted.

I let my hands explore her naked back, stroking it softly, kissing it gently. She trembled under my touch, this erstwhile vixen of the streets. The sassiness was gone, replaced by supplication and surrender.

From the small of her back, I moved to the backs of her legs, starting at her ankles, touching, caressing, kissing the creases of her knees, the creamy columns of her thighs, the tender fleshy part, letting my hands and mouth learn her.

Her heart thrummed. Her breath came harsh and fast. The closer I got to her delectable openings, the more she shivered in anticipation. I could see her essence dripping down her legs. She moaned quietly as I continued my quest.

I explored the cave of her dark canyon. My finger, poised at its threshold, needed no invitation. The soft moans that escaped her lips echoed in a gasp as it entered. This living instrument of her submission buried deeply inside her. The penetration hurt a little. I knew that. But it was only slight and nothing compared to what she would feel before the night ended.

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Where's everybody from NOW?

Lind — Mon, 07 May 2007 23:30:20 GMT

I'm suggesting we re-start this thread, given that many of the postings in the old thread are two years old. I know that there are folks still subscribed to this tribe who no longer monitor, and I'm certain that some of us have moved. So...

I'm in San Francisco's Mission District.

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Lifestyle info

Felip94608 — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 21:38:40 GMT

What is Swinging?

Swinging is a form of recreational social sex between consenting adults, most commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting other male/female couples for sex and/or ongoing intimate friendships. Contrary to popular belief, couples that are involved in the swinging lifestyle are usually in it more for the friendship with other couples rather than the sex involved. Hence, the expression used in the lifestyle: "friends with benefits".

Swinging (otherwise known as "the lifestyle") can take a variety of different forms. Although single women are generally welcome at swinging events, the degree to which single men are accepted is very limited if at all. Although female bisexuality is generally accepted in the swinging community, the degree to which male bisexuality is accepted also very limited. Swing clubs can be "on-premises" (which means that one may interact sexually with others at that event) or "off-premises" (which means that one would generally go back to the home or hotel room of other couples for sex, after deciding to do so at the event).

Newspapers and magazines, which carry personal ads for swingers, also exist, and to a slightly lesser degree these publications may also be considered an aspect of "the lifestyle." Swingers have traditionally been largely middle to upper class and tend to blend in quite easily with the general population in terms of appearance and ideology.
What Might I Like About Swinging?

People may be attracted to the swinging community for a variety of different reasons. Many couples find the thought of having sex with other people to be very arousing, and may find that swinging becomes a catalyst for improving their sex lives and relationship. Some people may feel stifled by repressive societal attitudes towards sexuality, and may welcome the opportunity to form friendships and a new social network with people of like mind.

Others may simply feel that sex should be a natural possibility in any friendship in which there is mutual attraction, and so appreciate the relative open-mindedness and pleasure-positively with which the swinging community views this subject. Although the swinging community is unfortunately not always the best place right now for het-identified men to explore their potential bisexuality, it is currently a relatively good place for het-identified women to initially explore sex with other women, and this sometimes plays a role in couples choosing to seek it out. In the past, the swinging community has been somewhat unaware of or confused by alternative sexual practices such as BDSM or Tantra. This appears to be changing, and these days you may find many folks in the swinging community who are knowledgeable about such things (though forms of BDSM much more extreme than spanking or very light bondage may make people uncomfortable, depending on the club).

If you're interested in doing so and spend enough time meeting different people, you may actually find that today's swinging community is becoming a somewhat fertile place to meet folks with a variety of sexual interests. It is certainly true right now that the national swinging conventions tend to host seminars and workshops on a variety of sexual topics, which seems at least somewhat indicative of broadening perspectives in the community.

Some women may find the swinging community to be a welcome dose of sanity. Our culture can be quite cruel to women who have an active interest in sex, often derisively labeling them "sluts" - a term which stands in sharp contrast to the less derogatory term for men, "studs". The swinging community may be especially attractive to these women, who may feel their sex drives and/or sexual assertiveness should be appreciated rather than snickered about or reviled.

Some people end up learning quite a bit about themselves and their sexualities through swinging. For example, most folks find that having their partner actively enjoy and appreciate what they are experiencing during sex to be a tremendous turn-on; this is a realization which may stand in sharp contrast to the attitude that "performance" is all-important. Swinging can be an opportunity to learn to relax and appreciate sexual pleasure, and may help one view sex more as a source of pleasure and intimacy and less as a social bargaining chip or ego fuel.
What Might I Dislike About Swinging?

If you are uncomfortable with people being sexually attracted to you and/or flirting with you, then you might be uncomfortable at swinging events; similarly, if your relationship with your partner is on shaky ground, you might find seeing him or her flirt or be flirted with to be an uncomfortable experience. If either of you have hidden agendas concerning finding a permanent "replacement" for each other, you're probably in for a major emotional disaster. If you and your partner cannot communicate directly about relationships and sex, you're probably eventually in for a similarly sized disaster. In general, sex can provoke strong feelings along with its many pleasures; if you aren't comfortable dealing with emotions, then perhaps it might be better to wait a little while before exploring "the lifestyle." If you are a single male, you might actually be better off waiting until you are in a suitable relationship with a female before attempting to become active in swinging - most swing clubs allow very few if any single men to attend their events.
General Hints for Enjoyable Swinging

In the context of swinging, "couples" need not be married. They should, however, have at least a little history together and familiarity with each others' emotional needs, and be comfortable approaching others as a "couple." The general rule of thumb is that swinging works best when couples view swinging as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than as a replacement for a failing one.

As one would expect, good communication is critical in any attempt at swinging as a couple. There are many, many different forms that swinging may take, and whichever one you choose is fine as long as you and your partner are clear about what you are doing and why. Sex has the potential to be an emotionally-charged area, and the pleasures that may be found in swinging can generally be reached only when both partners are sensitive to each others' needs, and put their partner's comfort first. From a more pragmatic point of view, there will always be another party, another personal ad, another dance, another convention; there may not be another chance to salvage an exploration into swinging if one partner becomes overwhelmed in "the garden of delights" and forgets to treat his or her primary partner with sensitivity and respect.

It's important to keep in mind that swinging is primarily a SOCIAL activity. The ordinary social customs of meeting people and initiating a conversation are really not that different than at any other type of social gathering, and the process by which acquaintances become close friends is not that different either. The key social traits that tend to be appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability with regard to one's primary relationship.

As is the case with almost all human social endeavors, if you already know people in a particular community you'll probably be happier if you attend your first few events with these people so they can introduce you to others. Waiting a little while and watching how others behave is also a good idea, as it is in almost any new social situation. Common courtesy, of course, is as welcome in the swinging community as it is in any other community; we're all just people, after all.

There are several different styles of swinging which you may see in the swinging community. Some people may prefer not to be around when their partner is having sex with someone else ("closed swinging"), while others may insist on it ("open swinging"). The term "soft swinging" refers to trading partners just for the purposes of heavy petting and then switching back to one's primary partner for any actual sex. It might be valuable for you to think about whether there are any potential situations that you feel you would be more or less comfortable in, and discuss these with your partner.

Although not all couples find it necessary to do this, some couples feel more comfortable having social "codes" that only the two of them know. Examples might be discreet phrases or gestures which mean a) one of you is attracted to the people or person he or she is talking to and wants to know if you are interested in swinging with them, b) a reply to the above, either affirmatively or negatively, and c) one of you is not having a good time and wants to get away from things for a while.

At most swingers clubs, it's common for people to dress up or else wear very sexy and risqué clothing. If there's a dress theme for a particular event, go with the theme.

By the way, it is not necessary to actually have sex with other people to have a good time in the swinging community. Activities such as dances can provide a wonderful opportunity to flirt and be flirted with in a non-threatening yet sexually charged atmosphere, which can be fun.
Dealing with Jealousy

There are many different opinions about jealousy - several of the books recommended at the end of this guide devote considerable attention to the topic.

An interesting dynamic can sometimes arise in couples new to swinging, a dynamic which has inspired the community adage that "the more enthusiastic member of a couple will get the couple into swinging, but the less enthusiastic partner will keep them there." As Carol Queen puts it in her book Exhibitionism for the Shy
"The swing community has noticed another prevalent dynamic in couples where one partner, more often than not the man, has more enthusiasm than the other. He has had terrific fantasies about freewheeling sex and plenty of it, and he finally convinces his initially reluctant partner to give swinging a try. When they get to the party, she has a great time and is high demand, while he thinks the party's a dud... Before you pack up your sexy outfit and fistful of condoms, take some time to consider and negotiate how you will deal with the chagrin of the less popular partner if such a dismaying event happens to you."

In other words, some jealousy may spring from insecurity: if I'm worried that I'm not valuable enough to keep my primary partner's interest and love, or that fewer people will be interested in playing with me than with my primary partner, I may be more apt to get jealous. For the latter case, some of these fears may be alleviated by choosing, at least initially, to only swing together as a couple; this way neither partner can be left out.

Sometimes jealousy may spring from feelings of scarcity rather than feelings of insecurity: the fear is that "there's only so much love and so much pleasure and so much intimacy to go around." With this in mind, I'd like to quote from the NASCA Guide to Swinging, "The Myth of the Scarcity of Love is the popular belief that 'love is scarce,' which encourages hoarding. Hoarding, in turn, created the very scarcity that was feared to begin with. The myth's premises are that each of us has a very limited amount of love to give, spend, or sell; that if this is divided among several people, each will get less; that love can be saved; and that in order to be valuable, true love must be exclusive."

If you enjoy good literature and want to explore this idea in more depth, take the time to read a short story by Amy Bloom entitled "Love Is Not a Pie" (published in her Come to Me: Stories collection). But just as food for thought for the time being, you might consider a question which Dr. Deborah Anapol poses in Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits: "Imagine a culture in which your partner's attraction to another signified opportunities for greater pleasure and intimacy; would jealousy occur in this context?" I honestly don't know the answer to this question, but for me swinging has been part of the inquiry.

To end this section on a more practical note, many couples find that the secrets to dealing with jealousy tend to revolve around good communication, keeping agreements, reassuring each other as to your love and commitment before and after playing with someone new, and listening to each other's emotional concerns and taking them seriously whenever they arise. If jealousy becomes an issue for you and your partner, you might try working on some or all of these things. Of Interest to Men...

By including these warnings I do not mean to imply that all or even most men would ever act like this; chances are if you're still reading this document you already have a healthy social sense and wouldn't think to misbehave in these ways. But anyway, here goes...

Attempting to hire an escort or sex worker to go to a swinging event with you, if you don't have a regular female partner, just so you can get in the door is a terribly poor idea; this is considered inappropriate at every club I have ever heard of, is generally sufficient to get you black-listed, and is a ruse that is highly likely to be noticed by others. A related concept is taking along someone who isn't really your primary partner and isn't really interested in swinging; such folks are called "tickets" (i.e. you just used them as a "ticket" to get in the door), and this practice isn't looked upon favorably either.

If you want nothing more than to see your female partner have sex with another woman, you will probably be better off forgetting about it until she brings it up; wandering around the club by yourself attempting to find a woman who wants to have sex with her, or otherwise trying to push this personal choice into happening, is considered quite unrefined and to be lacking in discrimination and sensibility.

Finally, please remember to converse with both members of a couple you and your partner are interested in, not just the partner you are interested in having sex with; ultimately it's your ability to form friendships with COUPLES which will determine the quality of your experience in the swinging community.
Using Personal Ads

In general, you will probably waste less time by placing an ad than by responding to ads. When writing your personal ad, it's important to be clear and honest about what your requirements are. You may find it helpful to first obtain a P.O. Box and a voice mail box which aren't traceable to your real name or home address; it's also a good idea to arrange the first meeting with someone new to be in a neutral and/or public place, so that if things don't seem to be going well you'll be able to leave easily and nobody new will know where you live. Ultimately, however, if you have swing clubs (whether on- or off- premises) in your area you will probably be better off meeting swingers through them than through personal ads.
Keeping Yourself and Your Partner Healthy
Introduction

Each sex-positive community in this country has had a different response to the AIDS crisis, and in the face of a very frightening disease it is hard for me to fault people for acting irrationally sometimes. However, I believe the time has come for a more intelligent, pleasure-positive, and long-term response to STDs (of all kinds) than "excluding bisexual men," "inquiring about sexual histories and hoping for the truth," "trying to reassure yourself about how few people in your community you think are infected right now," "stigmatizing anal play," etc.

Learning to use latex and water-based lube skillfully may take a little practice, and ultimately it is up to you and your partner whether you will follow some or all the precautions I'm going to describe. However, try to keep in mind some of the payoffs: increased protection from disease, increased peace of mind, increased protection against pregnancy when another form of birth control (such as the pill) fails, and greater ease in interacting with younger swingers who may have never known a time when they haven't felt it necessary to use latex.
The Basics

Put simply, the single most effective thing you can do to stay healthy when swinging is to use latex condoms for intercourse; this practice is now extremely common in the swinging community, and is often expected.

All condoms are not made alike; men should experiment with different brands until they find the one they like best. When you put on a condom, pinch its tip as you unroll it (all the way down!) to prevent an air bubble from forming in the reservoir tip. For intercourse, you should then put some water-based lube (such as I-D, ForPlay, Wet, or Astroglide) on the outside of the condom for comfort, mutual pleasure, and to keep the condom from tearing during sex.

For a while, health experts were recommending that people use condoms and water-based lubes with Nonoxynol-9 to help guard against HIV transmission; current evidence suggests that, in the real world, N-9 is not nearly as good at HIV prevention as it has proved to be at contraception. Also, many women are allergic or sensitive to N-9, and it tastes horrid. For these reasons I only purchase products without N-9, but of course the choice is yours.

It should be obvious that a new condom needs to be put on for each new partner. If you're going to switch from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse, you should also put on a new condom (doing otherwise can cause vaginal infections - similarly, you shouldn't put any fingers that used to be in an anus in a vagina without first washing your hands with hot water and anti-bacterial soap).

Some men find that more sensation is transmitted to them if they put a drop of water-based lube in the tip of their condom before putting it on.
The History and Future of Swinging

Swinging dates back to the 1950's. Initially, personal ads were the only way to meet people in this particular lifestyle; the first organization to be open about swinging was the Sexual Freedom League (in Berkeley, California during the 1960's). Eventually, an umbrella organization called the North American Swing Club Association (NASCA) was formed to promote accurate information about the lifestyle all across the country.

Currently the Internet is becoming an alternative to printed personal ads, and a variety of large swinger's conventions are being held every year. Popular conventions include "New Orleans Swing Fest", "Lifestyles", "Wind and Waves", "Campout", "Northwest Celebration", and "Visions".

My best guess as to the future is that as more people in this country begin to think of themselves as "open-minded" and "sex-positive", as our response to STDs becomes more rational, and as more people from other sex-positive communities begin to explore swinging, the swinging community will grow and begin to attract a new generation of sexually adventurous enthusiasts. I suspect that the size and influence of the annual swinging conventions will continue to grow, and also suspect that "cyber-space" alternatives to real-life swinging (involving interactive video, sound, etc.) will become increasingly popular.

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Polyoccasionalstringsoptionalfucknotbuddy?

Swaz — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 22:33:06 GMT

Anyone up for some friends without benefits, or benefits without friends? We could have no sex with lots of strings attached. Or perhaps no sex and attach the strings to other people. I'll be your fuck-enemy. You can fuck me then really really not like me if you want. Then you can attach strings to me just to frustrate me. I'll let you not fuck me, call me up and say "HEY BUDDY!" and say that it was beneficial for both of us. But then you must let me throw string at you. I'll let you be my pal without any play. We could even play without being pals of course. I'll even be in your nonpoly non amorous relationship with you.

I'll take it anyway I can get it.

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My First Extramarital Handjob - I Didn't Even Know the Meaning of That Word Before Then

Wed, 02 Jan 2008 20:03:54 GMT

I'm now 29. My husband, 17 years older, has had a fantasy of watching me with another man even before we were married 10 years ago. Just a month shy of two years ago, he asked if I'd accompany him to an adult video store.

At the back of the store was a long hallway with 20 video-viewing booths on each side. Business was slow that night and only a couple of customers were in the hall's booths. We were watching a video in a curtained booth and another guy peeked in at us. He looked very young,at least five years younger than my 26 years at the time. I'm 5'11" and he was about two inches shorter than me.

He asked if we minded if he watched with us. I said no and he joined us behind the booth's curtain. He stood alongside me and unzipped his pants. He pulled out his dick as he stood alongside me, my husband standing behind me and staring at us.

As the stranger jerked off, he carried on an ordinary conversation with such comments as, "So, are you two from around here?" and the like. I felt at first as if I had entered an alien land.

I hadn't had a lot of experience seeing other men's penises. My husband's is small, just a couple of inches when soft. At 18, I'd dated a guy with a six-inch dick. Although my younger brother's was larger, this man's still seemed enormous to me at that time.

I couldn't stop staring and my heart was pounding. His cockhead seemed as large as my husband's entire size when semi-erect.

My husband pulled out his penis and began stroking in unison with the guy. My heart thumped as I glanced from one to the other rigid cock.

Gasping, I leaned against a wall. Each watched me. I unbuttoned my blouse. They gazed in excitation at my naked breasts.

The guy's eyes glazed over. He reached to fondle a breast and exploded immediately. His face reddened as if embarrassed and he stuffed his sausage back in his pants. He breathed a, "Thank you," to us and slipped quietly from the booth, scurrying down the hall to the exit.

I didn't then know that I was soon to learn that penises come in many shapes, colors and sizes.

***
On the Saturday of the following week, my husband asked the next Saturday if I wanted that night to visit the store again. I chewed my lower lip, hesitantly, but ultimately agreed, "Yeah, sure. Last Friday was, well, really different!."

This time we left the curtain opened. A guy about 30 walked twice by our booth and made eye contact. I smiled. He asked to join us and I nodded affirmatively, unable to speak.

He closed the curtain behind him and my husband dropped a handful of coins into the video machine. The guy stood alongside me and I let my hand brush the bulge in his jeans. He groaned. I unzipped the fly and pulled out his dick, asking if he wanted me to jerk him off. He said, "Please."

I stroked his hot and firm length. Although his face was porcelain pale, his shaft was dark with large purplish veins. It curved up to his belly. Curling my fist around this stiff rod, I gasped as an electric shock ran through my body.

His body shuddered. He groaned and I pointed his dickhead away from me as his love juice ejected onto a wall.

He zipped up, nodded a "thank you" and walked out of the booth and back toward the door leading to the book racks.

Two weeks passed and my husband hadn't suggested we return. I asked if he wanted to try to find another prospect at the video booths. He said, "Sure. I was concerned you wouldn't go back."

***
AFTER SEVERAL VISITS: I was wearing tropical cotton slacks and a tube top when we greeted the store owner's son and made our way back to the viewing booths. By now, he had figured out what we were up to each time we were here and winked at me.

A first-year college student spotted us as we were trying to find a newer video we hadn't yet seen. He poked his head from his curtain and said, "I found a good one if you want to watch with me." My husband and I smiled at the other and walked in alongside the guy.

He talked as the movie was winding down and told us he'd start it over. He told us he was 19 and single. We hadn't any lengthy conversation with the men we had met under these circumstances. Each encounters typically had been no more than a jerkoff party. I'd masturbated myself in a circle with my husband and one or two other guys and once with another married couple who had invited us to join them.

But this guy acted older than his years and we immediately liked him. My husband who's 17 years older than me, for reasons I couldn't fathom, introduced me as his "21-year-old daughter." This was somewhat believable. Even at 28, I was often asked to present my ID whenever we walk into any place where alcohol is served.

Somehow, this excited this young guy more than most we had met here but he seemed somewhat hesitant to began the masturbation party. So I rubbed my open hand against his erection beneath his tan jeans and asked, "Would you like me to masturbate you while we watch?"

He said, "Oh yeah!"

My husband stood on the booth's low stool to get a better view of us.

I removed my tube top as he unzipped his jeans. I pulled on his rod as my husband watched and jerked off. He bucked against my hand. I turned to my husband and sucked his trembling length.

The guy's voice quavered as he said, "Wow, you and your dad are really close."

It was all I could do from bursting out laughing but I suppressed my humor and said, "We're an unusual family. Daddy has enjoyed fucking me since Mom left."

We left the store after both had ejaculated and the guy sat with us in the darkened back of our van in the store's parking lot. After petting, we removed our clothes and he fucked me as my husband watched. He would be only one of four guys whose dicks I allowed inside me during the two years we visited this meeting place.

Before leaving for his car, he asked me for a date. I turned to my "father" and asked if it was "...okay, Daddy?" My husband said, "Sure, honey, he seems like a good boy to me."

We had two enjoyable dates but on the third time out, we were dancing naked in his apartment near his school when his girlfriend used her key to walk in on us.

I pulled on my jumpsuit and was zipping up as she was screaming at him. I grabbed my purse and waved goodbye, scurrying out the door. In this heated situation, I hadn't realized that I'd left my bra but I didn't return to get it.

He never called again, but we saw their pictures in the local newspaper's wedding announcements six months later so I guess they worked everything out. He had never told me he had a girlfriend, expecially one with a key to his apartment.

After that story he had told Jeff about being my "father," my husband often introduced me as his daughter whenever we met a man there. Sometimes, just for fun, he made this claim to waiters at restaurants.

We began selecting incest videos more often than most other genres while here.

***
Occasionally, maybe five times total, not just one but two guys had walked into the viewing booth area together. On those occasions I was jerking off both simultaneously but had to leave my husband to take care of himself.

The more memorable was the time that two guys sneaked into our booth and told us they were fellow students who then lived in the same dorm. They couldn't have been more different. The guy named Bill was tall, long-limbed and lean, with short blond hair. His dick was about average size and felt good in my hand. His brown-haired friend was about 5'7", with a cock that seemed nine or ten inches long, another record for me.

We stood in a line watching a hot incest video about a mom and son, one guy stood on each side of me as I stroked their hot pricks. The shorter guy unbuttoned my blouse and nursed a breast. I gasped, awash in dicks as my lifted my skirt and inserted his between my bare legs from the back.

The taller of the two reached behind me and his hand encircled my husband's stiff rod to jerk him off while I was doing those two.

***
Except for that brief interlude with Jeff who had fucked me in our van, we made a trips to the book and video store regularly over more than a year and half, about once every two weeks, until the place closed down two months ago.

A few weeks before it was to close, the owner's son was behind the counter and had by then come to know us and what we were up to. We chatted often with him and he told us that he and his father was selling the property because of the vastly inflated commercial property in this area. The asking price would have assured them they'd never need to work again but each had other plans for new businesses. This was our community's last adult book store with private video booths.

As a pre-going-away gift, he presented us a half dozen swingers magazines from his backroom inventory and suggested we could use them to continue our adventures. He, his sister, and parents were swingers and had experience with several local couples and singles who advertised in the mags.

He stapled his personal card with phone number atop one of the mags and told us we would be his guests at a swingers party or a local annual swingers ball if we wished.

He told us that Jeff had stopped in a few times since he'd married and they talked about the "father and daughter" Jeff had met there. The store manager knew better but didn't rat on us; instead, he had elaborated on the story by adding that I had a "brother" who looked just like Jeff. He said Jeff thought that was the most exciting story he'd heard in his life.

After the store's property sold, we phoned the young man who gave us his card and swingers magazines and attended two parties at local homes of his friends. We decided we wouldn't be into swinging for the long run. I enjoyed giving the handjobs though.

Those video booths gave us a lot of great memories and we still talk about several guys we met there.

JAN 1 2008 - My husband and I are being transferred to another state within a week. I'll return to Tribes shortly after we're settled. Thank you for those readers who have commented on these past events.
~ 'T"

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My First Fuckbuddy

Wed, 26 Dec 2007 04:05:13 GMT

I was married when I met my first fuckbuddy. It turned out a bit strange later, but I became accustomed to that and ultimately found the unexpected events to be fun.

My husband has a small penis and became mostly impotent three years ago after he began taking a medication. I’m now 29. I was just 19 when we married and he was 36.

Even before we married, he often related a fantasy of me having sex with another man, a desire I then didn’t understand. But by then, 8 years later and taking into account our marital circumstances, I began to consider the possibility. I’d often dream about being naked with faceless men, each with a generous-sized penis.

I began taking night classes at a local college and met a young classmate 9 years younger and who sat just behind me. I was then 27. I’m particularly tall and Jeff was a couple inches shorter than me He’s slender and long-limbed, with brown eyes and light brown hair.

He walked me to the parking lot after the first night’s class and talked about whatever came to mind. He asked if I’d be interested in going for coffee at a pub a couple of blocks away and I agreed. I lost track of time until noticing more than two hours had passed.

We kept up this routine at the pub over the following two weeks. The third week, I was fully aware that he was attracted to me by his persistent touching of my hand. As we were about to leave, he stood. I glanced to his groin. I stared wide-eyed at his hefty erection until he became aware of my interest. I smiled approvingly but neither of us commented on what had just occurred.

That night upon arriving at home, I asked my husband that night if he was truly serious about me wanting me to have sex with another man.

He said, “Oh, yeah! Did anything happen tonight?” I told him all about Jeff. He enthusiastically approved of encouraging this guy to do me. He added that I “deserved” some dick since he wasn’t able to perform.

I nodded agreeably and said I’d “think about it” but realized immediately after saying that, I could hardly wait for this guy to fuck my brains out.

After the following week’s class, Jeff suggested that I leave my car in the school’s parking lot and ride with him in his van. I rode alongside as he drove into the pub’s dark parking area. Instead of opening the door to get out, he turned to me. I returned his gaze. He reached for my hand. I stroked his arm and he leaned to kiss me.

I stroked his throbbing hard-on. He led me by a hand to the back of his van and closed the drapes of its windows. He urged my back to the carpeted floor. I unzipped his fly, pulling out his cock. It bounced against my face and I gasped at his 7 and a half inch length, nearly twice the size of my husband’s. The only longer prick I’d ever seen was that of my younger brother when I lived at home. Soon our clothes piled between the bucket seats and our naked bodies entertwined. Our groins humped against the other’s. I pleaded, “Oh yeah, do me. Do me now. I’m so hot! I need your hot cock inside me.”

He kneeled between my quivering thighs. I wrapped my bare legs around his waist and looked down at the narrow space between our bodies as his walnut-shaped dickhead entered my eager cavity. Only four boys or men had ever been inside me and those were now in the distant past.

I moaned as my body shuddered. He slammed deep into my wet cunt and a billion stars lit up the van. My heels thumped against his ramming buttocks.

He turned me to my knees. My head swiveled around as he entered my vagina from the rear. My hair swirled wildly in the warm air.

He groaned and his body stiffened. His hot lava rocketed through his cock and spurted inside my vaginal walls. I squealed in multiple orgasms.

Somewhere during the first few times he was thrilling me with his sizzling dick, he began calling me “Mom.” I immediately recognized his apparent incestuous fantasy and told him “Oh, yeah, I wanna feel my little boy’s big cock in Momma’s pussy.” His excitation soared to new heights. We writhed in ecstasy.

Our couplings increased to two or three nights each week. I often staggered home as late as 3 a.m. Neither of us could get enough. I told my husband each night of our escapades in detail and those were the only times he was able to get an erection. Because I was often sore from Jeff’s dick, I’d suck my husband’s cock and deny him entry into my pussy. He never complained. Once my husband made a surprising confession, “I’d even suck his dick if you wanted me to.” He never repeated that though, insisting he wasn’t bi.

Near semester’s end, Jeff received acceptance from an out-of-state school. He had previously suspected a rejection slip from that university, so this was of great importance to him.

The night of our last class, his car wouldn’t start and I drove him home. He invited me in to meet his mother, a successful corporate manager who had divorced her husband five years before. He had a two-year-older sister who was away at a chef’s school.

I was surprised to hear him introduce me as “the friend” he had talked about so much. I hadn’t thought he would mention me at all since I was married.

His mother gave me a knowing grin, implying she suspected our relationship was also physical and not just friends.

Just a couple of days after Jeff left for his new school, his mother phoned me and told me she had come across a sweater I’d left at their home. She invited me over to their home for a drink. We agreed the following evening would be good for each of us.

When I arrived, his mother greeted me with a handshake but held my hand longer than necessary. I didn’t pull away. She was dressed in thin white slacks and a translucent white blouse, both of which clearly conveyed that she wore nothing beneath.

She invited me to sit by patting the back of the couch alongside her. After a few minutes of chit-chat, she said, “I’m not sure how to put this without making you feel uncomfortable. Believe me, whatever happened is okay with me. I’m just asking for personal reasons.”

I told her, “It’s okay. I think I know what you’re going to ask.”

Upon her questioning, I admitted that Jeff had been fucking me for some time.

She responded, “I thought so. I wanted to thank you..”

I had now relaxed and asked her to explain. She said, “Jeff mentioned to me that he often called you ‘mom.’ I guessed correctly how that came about and thought you might want to know his motivation.”

Her story spilled out. His mother realized her son had a strong desire for an incestuous relationship with her. And because of one recent incident, she assumed he wanted sex with his older sister as well.

She explained, “Jeff has his own bath down the upstairs hall from his room.” I already knew that because we had fucked in his room twice when no one else was home. I didn’t tell her that.

His mom went on, “But Jeff often came down to the master bath next to my bedroom. He walked in when I was naked on his way to my shower. I’m sure he waited outside in the hall until he was sure I was nude and then walked in at that time.

“After his shower, he would walk back to my room with nothing on except occasionally a towel around his neck. Typically, he sported a hard-on. Made no effort to hide it. He seemed proud of it.

I asked how she reacted and she told me she pretended to ignore his nakedness and stiff cock. Because she was also nude, she was tense the first couple of times this happened. But eventually she became accustomed to it and just had conversations with her son. The tension was still there but it was easier to control.

She said, “Do you understand what I’m saying?”

“Sure,” I said. “He wanted to fuck you.”

She said, “Thanks. I like people who are direct. He did the same with his sister and she told me that she occasionally was tempted to jerk him off. I understood. So did I. But I was concerned about the potential long-term effect on all of us if either I or his sister allowed our natural desire to play with Jeff’s big dick. It would be even worse if we lost our heads and fucked him. I explained that to her and she understood. We decided to do nothing for awhile at least.”

“And then, you came along.
So now I understood what she was getting to. I was her son’s surrogate mom. She went on to say that he hadn’t been walking in on her or walking in on her or his sister with his hard dick since he and I had begun fucking.

On at least one occasion, not long before her son and I had begun dating, he entered his sister’s room while she was sleeping. He picked up her limp hand and wrapped her fingers around his stiff cock.

She awoke but didn’t want to embarrass him by making a scene. She pretended to remain asleep. She told her mom that she may have betrayed this charade because her hand automatically gripped his cock. He pumped his hips into her hot hand until he spurted onto her sheets. He removed her fingers and slipped quietly out of the room.

Their mother laughed as she finished this story and added, “She was probably disappointed that she had to let it go, but she didn’t admit that.”

Later that night, as I was standing in the doorway and preparing to leave, she leaned forward and kissed me full on the lips. I held her face and returned a lingering kiss.

Each of our groins rubbed against the other and we then disengaged. We exchanged knowing smiles. She isn’t gay or bi, but the excitement of telling her story and my admitting that I was fucking her son excited us both. Nothing else developed from that brief interlude.

After that night, his mother and I became fast friends. We were open in conversation, over the phone or face-to-face. She phones each time her son is expected home from school and arranges our get-togethers. A few times when his sister is away, these dates have been overnight at their home with Mom’s approval.

His sister has since become fully aware of the relationship and endorses it.

Because he’s away so much, they know that I date another guy for sex whenever either of us feel the need. Everyone understands that Jeff and I are just fuckbuddies. But ours is a semi-incestuous relationship as well. Well, okay, it’s really a pretend-incest relationship, not a real one.

Although I was never involved in any sort of sex with relatives, this ongoing “pretend” liaison between Jeff and me has caused in me a perverted interest in incestuous novels and movie. I buy both over the internet.

I guess the closest I ever came to committing incest was when I lived at home. I occasionally came upon my younger brother naked and on a few of those occasions he had an erection.

He once was masturbating when I walked into his room to talk about a school problem with which he’d earlier asked for help. He apologized and put his dick away. I just shrugged and said, “Forget it, I won’t tell.” The only interesting part of that to me was how big it was when super-hard.

But I had no thoughts of incest with him and I’m sure he didn’t either.

I wasn’t the only one affected by Jeff’s fantasy. Although we don’t do this in front of Jeff’s sister, he, his mother and I have watched perhaps a dozen adult-incest videos at their home when he’s home from school and rented them from a local store. His mom and I once commented on his erection but understood and admitted those films aroused us. We had seen his other hard-ons but usually said nothing about it, just grinned or winked at the other whenever he wasn’t watching.

All of us admit these carefully-selected videos are hot. But his mother and I realized her son had crossed an important threshold when he said, “It’s stimulating to imagine but it’s impractical in the long run.”

I never discuss that little perversion with anyone else except my husband.

And, with all this interest in family sex, I’m just glad my brother doesn’t live in the same state as we do. I’m kidding. I’d never fuck my little brother. My husband in one of his weirder moments once asked whether I’d consider just jerking my bro off. I told him to “get a life” and he never brought it up again.

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Oral Orgasm

dsoul — Tue, 16 Oct 2007 16:38:00 GMT

Here's a question for all you boys and girls: how much do you enjoy having orgasmic delights via oral stimulation only?

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and gay men in Minnesota looking for a fuckbuddy?

Vern — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 10:41:54 GMT

hey guys older Minnesota guy here, in good shape, looking for a regular fuck buddy

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any one phone fuckbuddies.....

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 05:05:23 GMT

I was curious if anyone here has a phone fuckbuddy....

I would love to have one again. I used to have several and miss it.
There are nights it is hard to fall asleep and no good porn to watch (seen most of it on line)
I have read most of the porn too so I would love to find someone who is a night owl like me
that would from time to time talk on the phone and talk about fantasies, taboo thoughts and so on.

Any idea where I can look............

:)

C

PS, love someone who is very vocal......

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Let's get physical in Wisconsin!!

Bob — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 06:01:20 GMT

Sometimes the anonymity of online dating makes it much easier to admit what you really want. Don't you agree? There's nothing better than taking your inhibitions down, along with your clothes, and just going for it. You know what I mean? Something really spontaneous and passionate. Enjoying each other fully - many times. : ) Maybe go out for a bite to eat, sit back, relax, maybe watch a DVD - then back at it!
How's that sound?

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Single....

CrossSidhe — Sun, 22 Jul 2007 06:12:12 GMT

....and Looking.

=:)

C-

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Top or Bottom or Side

Bernard — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 21:02:19 GMT

Which do you prefer as a postion not as a role??

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anyone wanna meet up and fool around?

Ellis — Wed, 12 Dec 2007 06:12:35 GMT

ANYONE in LA?

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fuckbuddies (6+)

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 03:07:23 GMT

My wife is a great slut, we both enjoy her appetite for sex and its wide range of urges.
She's carefully developed a group of 6 guys within a 10 minute drive of our house or her work. The guy's don't know each other, but are aware that she enjoys selective play.
At least once a week she will call & stop by one of her "fuck-n-go" guys on her way home from work. Or, she might get into the mood after dinner and go for a quick fuck. The intent of them being close by is that she can make the trip in about an hour.

It gives her an opportunity to vary her experiences (various fetishes), and is great for me as she gets hotter after the first guy has unloaded in her.

Next week, she has an old friend coming into town, and he likes gang bangs. So, this is a great opportunity for her to play with all 8 at one time: the 6, plus her friend, plus me as another fuckbuddy.

I'm looking forward to having her afterward as I expect this party to really get her urges going.

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How Long Can You Last?

dsoul — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 18:58:13 GMT

Some would brag that they've been able to keep themselves going for more than an hour when having sex. Not that I'd ask anyone in here to time themselves ... but could you, or have you ever tired it to know how long you can keep it going?

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Getting Unconciously Aroused

dsoul — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 19:25:03 GMT

Once I was walking down the street, just another ordinary day, when suddenly I started feeling myself get a rise inside my jeans. Wasn't thinking anything at the time, but it just happened.

Any of you ever had such an experience like this before?

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new art calendar availible

Asbjorn — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 17:57:10 GMT

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Any ladies interested in a fuck buddy in teh SF bay area

Thu, 22 Nov 2007 18:33:35 GMT

open minded to anything......

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Any Women in Atlanta Area ?

Michael — Sun, 11 Nov 2007 17:52:49 GMT

I am attractive athletic single white man in Atlanta area who would love to meet a hot woman in Atlanta area for NSA sex. If interested, please reply... Thanks.

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who is in the Los Angeles area?

loki70 — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 17:21:41 GMT

Looking to see who is in my area

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Victoria BC

Thu, 01 Nov 2007 16:53:26 GMT

Anyone wanna be my fuck buddy I could use some real puntang!

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NYC peeps

gin gin — Sat, 27 Oct 2007 00:15:34 GMT

Just wanna get a shout out to see if anyone from NYC is using this site/group. Anyone getting results (this tribe or others)?

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FWB in Oakland area let's make each other feel good...

Bernard — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 23:45:40 GMT

Hi Looking for someone for some NSA fun.......I am a nice guy like to do all the things that fwb do,and I get good remarks from my FWB relations....I would like to meet someone near lake merrit in oakland or the oakland area. I am a passionate slow going to build intenisty....I am certain we will both be happy....anyone out there looking to hook up play a bit.

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Location, location

dsoul — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 16:12:12 GMT

How much does your choice of location have for you when indulging in your sexual exploits?

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Anyone in the Seattle area?

Daniel — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 22:03:36 GMT

I'm looking for a new friend in the Seattle area. Is anyone local?

Daniel

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Participate in legit sex-ed video, $1000 for 1 day's work

SexAndGenderResearch — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 08:30:13 GMT

Hello and thanks for reading---

I work for a company that produces high-end videos on sexual health and sex education. Our current project is hitting a deadline crunch--- we need another male-female couple to participate in a video THIS month (October). Shooting location is Los Angeles. One day's work, approx 9 a.m to 5:30 pm or so (we provide lunch). Pays $1,000.00.

You'll be interviewed on-camera about your sexual relationship, the crew will shoot some stills to accompany/promote the video, and you'll be videotaped illustrating various sexual positions.

This is not porn, we are not part of the adult entertainment industry, we have been in business for over 30 years, this is not spam or a scam. If you'd like to contact me, please do so through Tribe messaging. There are a few basic questions , about your availability and our specific needs for participants. If it looks workable, I'll forward your contact information to the video producers. I don't need any personal information from you , e.g real name , address, etc. Just need to find out if you match the basic criteria our producers have set up and when you're available in L.A.
Safe, professional setting, with professional crew.
We prefer* that folks not be part of the adult entertainment industry.
We're seeking couples, and we're not able to "match up" any singles for the shoot--- so if you're interested & single, please try to find someone who'd like to work with you for that day, as a couple. This is a legitimate sex education/sexual health production, as you'll see once you contact me to receive more info. You will NOT receive any spam messages, be placed on any mailing lists, or have your info sold or given out. Your message will come directly to me, I'll email you back, and if the situation looks workable for you/my company, I'll send your contact info directly to the producers. They'll talk with you, and set things up. That's the whole deal---- no scam. :)

Thanks again.

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Ladies in Las Vegas?

gravax — Thu, 04 Oct 2007 14:07:54 GMT

Hello all!

Arriving in Vegas Saturday 6th... staying until the 11th. Any lady here want to share some fun with a travelling Frenchman? Get French kissing lessons from the source... and share some pure, unadulterated, international fun!

Gilles.

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No-Stings-Attached Sex Buddy

dsoul — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 17:51:20 GMT

What are the chances of having yourself a sex/fuck buddy without either of you having any sentimental attachment to each other?

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Anyone going to Lifestyles Convention in Las Vegas - August 8 - 12?

bryce_hollywood — Sat, 04 Aug 2007 22:03:27 GMT

Hello All,

Anyone going to the Lifestyles Convention in Las Vegas at the Tuscany Hotel.

August 8 -12, 2007.

Would like to meet all friendly fuckbuddies for coffee, drink, breakfast, lunch, dinner, partying or any other type of get together.

Life is short - lets make the most of it.

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Multiply Orgasms

dsoul — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 12:46:16 GMT

Anyone in here every had such, and how did it make you feel afterwards.

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Where are the people from LA??

markymark — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 13:53:03 GMT

Or should I write where are the ladies from LA ?? :)

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What's too far?

jamesblair — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 21:57:28 GMT

So am I right?
tribe.net satrted in SF?
then became popular in LA?? I live in Riverside and will travel quite a distance to meet someone when there is that certian spark after chatting a bit. If it becomes an FB situation, well them.. I would most likely be traveling more often!

How far have you traveled to meet someone you have met on tribe, and how was the experiance?
*inquiring minds and all that*

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Craziest Place You Did It

dsoul — Mon, 25 Jun 2007 19:16:15 GMT

Hello there, everyone. Since we're here basically to talk about sex, I'd like to ask you all, where was the craziest or most unexpected place you've done it? I mean the kind of place where the two of you almost got caught at it ... if ever.

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Anybody NOT from the USA?

gravax — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 12:58:09 GMT

Hi!

Just looking for a show of hands... how many of you are NOT based in the USA?

I, for one, am in France (well... I *LIVE* in France ... and work just across the border in Geneva, Switzerland).

Any others from out of the USofA?

Gilles

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Sex Party Group Looking for HOT, Single MEN 21-40yrs...

Jodie — Fri, 22 Jun 2007 22:13:01 GMT

SOTC is a group of over 500 members, mostly couples and single women and are currently taking applications for SEXY single men to attend our parties. (Of course couples and single women are always encouraged to apply as well.) Bisexual a plus!

All single men have to be prescreened in person by the hosts - we are having a Meet & Greet next FRIDAY night in SF at an upscale strip club.

All guests have to be members (nominal fee to join) which includes invites to parties and social events, a forum to chat with other members, a newsletter, and a community of like-minded adults at your fingertips.

Looking for that single girl who is into play parties and swapping with others? We have made a few connections in the past for singles, we even have a pending marriage. You never know who you might meet a FWB, or even your future partner.

Apply online today and get an SOTC membership to get the invite to next Friday's Meet & Greet. You do not want to miss that meet as all of the men who have been prescreen will instantly be placed on ALL guest list for future parties!

If you are a couple or single woman - we are having a party this SAT, become a member and get your invite ASAP.

See site for details... www.SOTCparty.com

~Jodie~
SOTC Hostess

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TOU stormtrooper: Kibbitzer

Thu, 28 Jun 2007 21:15:37 GMT

Well, it has happened again. Kibbitzer has decided that bland taste and mundane existance shall triumph.

There shall be NO ideas, views or visualizations other than his

I am fed up with arbitrary deletions of on-topic posts and pics. .

He has never answered the question: What do "Private" (for groups), and "Friends Only" (for individuals) mean?

So, I've deleted all my pics to avoid further retribution

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I am in San Francisco

Thu, 21 Jun 2007 07:15:07 GMT

I am looking for female femme fuck buddies

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Introductions?

jmcdonald — Fri, 13 Apr 2007 07:23:45 GMT

Hi - Jim from Massachusetts, Cape Cod. Introductions seem like the most likely way the tribe serves its purpose. I'm a swimmer, travel back and forth East Coast & West Coast, and love to be surprised and impressed. Okay girls and guys, serve up your information.

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Stuck in Oakland...

xbatx — Sun, 17 Jun 2007 03:39:52 GMT

and could use a buddy. Have a room all to myself. anyone up for joining?

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where's everybody from?

eab2b2 — Thu, 26 May 2005 00:19:55 GMT

i think knowing where people are from would be helpful in creating these sucess stories.

hey, thanks for the hello back to my post.

great story by the way.

or about knowing where people are from part, is there any way to search faster than looking at all the 912 memebers profiles?

i tried that search thing at the top right, but i didnt get anything.

oh, some days i'm not the 'technical genius' i claim to be. ::sarcasm::

hope everyone is good.

--beth

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sex...swing....party

cnote6920032003 — Thu, 14 Jun 2007 19:46:08 GMT

If any of you women or men within my tribe community feel the same way i do ..........then lets help each other ! To start I have been told that I am a very attractive young man
I know i am very Sexually ACTIVE and I highly appreciate beauty and the female figure.

I would like to start an organization that is like tribe but you meet with hundreds of others like you and me through-out the country. this would be like a swingers festival, to meet others,party,hang out,have sex,possibly start relationships,start friendships,or do just about anything you feel like doing.

My name is Charles (Kayotic) Brown and I need a lot of help and feedback in order to make this work....here is all my direct contact info........

EMAIL:cnote6920032003@yahoo.com OR cnote9069@aol.com
MESSAGE PHONE'S:323-957-744 OR 323-461-3131
ADDRESS: 5850 Hollywood Blvd.
Hollywood CA. 90027

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Any gals in/near the inland empire who’d like to hook up?

Kevin — Mon, 11 Jun 2007 08:49:08 GMT

Hi, my name’s Kevin and I need some help. I still new to this whole dating thing and I’m getting the feeling that I may need a 3rd base coach to help me pick up on some aspects of flirting that I haven’t figured out on my own yet.

That with the fact that I’m still new to the inland empire and haven’t been able to find any hangouts that weren’t overrun with high schoolers makes my dating prospects look bleak.

So I’d welcome any comments or suggestions you can offer. Or if you’d like to stop by for a date, I’d be up for that too.

Thanks for your time,
Kevin

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First you, then your man

Thu, 07 Jun 2007 23:10:05 GMT

I come over.
You husband sits in a chair and watches,
as I slowly, seductively, remove your clothes...
I get you hot by going slowly
and teasingly...
your body arches
as my face approaches,
your pussy, it lifts and ginds towards my mouth
and I lick and suck your soft satiny lips

he stays, like a good boy, in his chair
as you undo my fly,
and pull out my stiff, thick, rod
he begins to stroke himself as
you take me into your mouth
and slowly, lick, and suck me
when you can't take any more,
you beg me to fill you
deeply
fully.
I grind in circles and scoops
as your body circles and arches in concert with my movements
your man begins to whimper
he's being left out
as I'm starting to get more intense and passionate with my thrusting, circling, and grinding
your moans are making him squirm
he starts begging to be allowed to play
when we feel he's good and ready
(when you've cum at least two or three times)
we call him over
"are you ready to play?"
when he says "yes please"
you pour lube on my cock
and in his crack
and you guide my hot phallos
into his tight hole
his turn to get fucked by me
I thrust and thrust
and then when I'm ready
I shoot on your bodies or faces
You may decide that
perhaps in your man's mouth, yours, both
on his back?

Are you hot, and have a husband that wants to be cuckolded and then fucked by a man?
call me:
five-ten "horn boy"

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anyone in Lawrence Kansas?

Sproutlife — Thu, 31 May 2007 00:12:21 GMT

recently moved back to Lawrence and couldn't resist looking for something fun to do80)

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No strings but rope is available if desired ;)

simon_p — Fri, 25 May 2007 16:39:09 GMT

I find myself looking for a new FWB or secondary at present. I had a lovely girl that I saw once a week over the past 9 months however she has found a new Primary potentially and is putting her effort into that relationship thus I would like to find someone to play with, preferably regularly or semi regularly. Interest in BDSM is not required although some interest in either BDSM, kink or off the wall fun would be good. Ideally you would be poly, bi, a switch and already have a primary but that is just the ideal. So take a peek at my profile, send me a message, lets chat, I don't bite I promise, well at least not until we are together in person ;)

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Massage is a great way to break the ice!

LuvShack — Tue, 22 May 2007 03:47:48 GMT

Like to start a massage exchange list in Seattle area for right now we are a couple but all welcome.
David

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looking for fun girls in san diego

mikola — Sun, 20 May 2007 23:47:00 GMT

exotic photographer seeking fun girls
in san diego...

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looking for tonight in palo alto

RoadRash — Tue, 15 May 2007 04:56:23 GMT

Any females want to have some fun tonight with me in palo alto? come on over to my place and lets see what happens:)

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Inviting new people?

Lind — Wed, 09 May 2007 21:31:04 GMT

Simon, I notice that the tribes you moderate all forbid inviting friends in. How would I go about getting a friend into this tribe?

Thanks,

-- Selinda

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Connections

Jim — Wed, 09 May 2007 21:31:34 GMT

So of all these members in this tribe, how many of you have met someone in person? I mean we are all looking for sex, satisfaction, aren't we? I'm a newbie on the tribe and have not met anyone yet. Love to meet some people from tribe.

Perhaps a fuckbuddies party?

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Anyone from Washington DC Metro Area?

ecrivaine32 — Fri, 16 Mar 2007 18:34:03 GMT

Hi, I'm from the Washington DC area, just looking to meet cool, new people. Email me - my email is on my Tribe homepage. I don't want to write a lot of personal details in this group.

I'm 34, attractive, female : )

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The Fun Of Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

Sun, 01 Apr 2007 07:26:00 GMT

On a different site a guy asked in frustration, “Do women really like to watch a guy Jerk off?”

From my experiences I certainly can say: yes some do, some like it a lot.

It is very easy to masturbate in front of girlfriends, so I assume what he was asking about is masturbating in front of strangers or others that he is not yet intimate with.

Are women more inclined to an element of intimate connection and men to the excitement of something new including with strangers? Certainly, but here there are also many exceptions.

Once when I was working security at an outdoor three-day concert a couple friends of a woman there told me (laughing) that their friend was a voyeur and that she was hanging out around the showers to get peaks at the men. Naturally I approached her and asked her if she wanted to go skinny-dipping. When she said yes we went down to the lake together and went swimming. When I got out of the water she looked away. I asked her what was the matter. She said she was just embarrassed. I told her that if she wanted to look, I wanted her to look. She smiled and as I stood there naked a little over an ankle deep in water her eyes scanned my entire body over and then focused on my cock. My cock grew very hard. I was not yet touching it. Still smiling she asked, “What are you going to do with that?” I asked her if she wanted me to give her a show. She said she was already getting one and that I should feel free to add on anything I like. I then began stroking my cock and gyrating my ass. I stroked my cock and danced for her for a couple hours. I came twice for her as she watched. Before cumming the second time I put my cock inside her and quickly brought her to orgasm.

I enjoyed the experience a lot, as did she. I’ve had a number of other experiences masturbating for women that were equally unique and enjoyable. While I certainly don't limit myself to such pleasures, I do not deny them.

Strippers and other nude images are much more available to men that enjoy nude women, than the other way around. I think this is partly because there is much less demand from women for it than from men, but some women do enjoy a free no strings attached naked man to play with or watch, so I do my best to bring equality to women's erotic adventures, one free strip show at a time.

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